Female Masculinities: There are few things I have found that are as undervalued and underappreciated and undercelebrated as this. In the world I call my own I have heard many women tell me to my face that they do not find masculine or butch women attractive. Which of course for many is a round-about way [...]
I have this “friend”. She is Bi but lately she has been driving me crazy like Mrs. Daisy with her mixed signals! This weekend it was abysmal! She was driving to a pub with me and we got on the subject of “girls”. We were going to confront an old dear friend of hers on [...]
most people have a hard time believing you can actually go through your entire childhood and teen years without drama… but not her… she’s always been too focused on everything else to actually notice either guys or girls she could potentially date… now looking back, she doesn’t feel like it was intentional or anything… it [...]
There have been four girls. The first was my first. L was flighty, loud, totally manipulative and wonderfully controlling. When she left I wasn’t surprised although I was still hurt. She left me for a guy. I was the only girl she ever dated. She told me it was just an experiment after dumping me. [...]
I can’t make her love me. Hell, I can’t even make myself love me. But when I met her that didn’t stop me from knowing she was the one. One of my largest fears surrounding commitment is the thought of life getting boring. The symptoms, for me at least, are as follows. Wake up at [...]
