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When I was a closeted teenager dating a hot girl in high school my thought was that the best part about being a lesbian was that women looked at the inside of one another. This would be one of the first generalizations about lesbians that I would make without knowing any. Years later I now know that the lesbian bars have that same row of women that the straight bars have men. You walk by them and you can feel their eyes grazing past you and burning a hole in the ass of the hot chick in front of you.

It’s human I suppose. Being attracted to “beauty” is not a gay or straight thing. I don’t fault anyone for whom they find attractive. I would be a hypocrite if I did so. But I do have a Christmas wish this year that I will be doing and that I would like others to think about. I have titled this wish and or mission A Second Look. Here’s the run down.

This applies to all the single ladies out there. I am asking you to give someone that you may have not found initially physically attractive a second look. Get to know her, ask her out on a date, call her unexpectedly. I can say from experience that I would love a chance to show someone the me that lives on the inside. I am not ashamed to say that I am a very large girl and I know that it has prevented women from wanting to get to know me. Of course I am talking about just meeting someone. My close friends know that I am insane, but kind.

It has always been a dream of mind to fall in love with a woman who loves me for me the way I look know. She would fall in love with the me on the inside that will always be me even when I lose all the weight I do intend to lose someday. I know that if the chemistry isn’t there that there isn’t much that you can do. But I am asking you all today to give a stranger or an acquaintance in your life a second look and let me know if you see something special.