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My partner and I have been together for 11 years this month.

And I love and hate her.

I love that having her in my life makes me want to be a better person.

I hate that she can make me feel like I’m invisible sometimes.

I love that she jumped right into my “ready made family” and wrapped her arms around my children all those years ago.

I hate that I’m at my sexual peak and she is not (whether it be the health issues or lack of desire).

I love that she can make me laugh so hard my belly hurts.

I hate that she doesn’t help around the house.

I love that she gets irritable if we don’t spend enough time alone together.

I hate that she gets irritable if we don’t spend enough time alone together.

Our entire relationship is about love and hate… some days I love her so much I’m sure if you turned off the lights I’d be glowing with it.

Other times I hate her and want to run far, far away.

Normal? Who knows.

But I can’t think of anyone that I spend considerable time with that I haven’t felt that way about.