2005
Thoughts on bisexuality
Bisexuality to me is a REAL type of sexuality. I was once labeled as one before I “came out” as a lesbian. I THOUGHT I had interest in males at one point but then I found “Mrs. Right” and history was made. I do believe that there are people who CAN enjoy both sexes and I also believe in Polyamorous people. Bisexuality in my opinion is not a “confused” queer as I have often heard from others. I myself have found a caring, loving woman whom I adore but that does not mean that someone who enjoys company of males and females alike is just pretending or “not sure” of themselves. I have a few friends who I consider BI because they have many suitors of both genders and are as happy and content as I am with my honey. I have often heard other gay women prodding the heads of bisexuals saying that they are unacceptable and the old familiar “you are a lesbian you just haven’t figured it out yet” and it frustrates me. I know that they can mean well but sometimes it can throw a person into a deep confusion. One instance I know of threw a girl into a mental institution because she got so depressed thinking about it. I say let them have their cake and eat it too if that’s what they fancy! My Bi friends are just that…Friends and I don’t try to sway them or make them feel any different than they would do to me being a woman in love with another.
