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Is it a bad thing that whenever I say, or even hear, the word masturbation I think of the game Concentration I used to play as a kid? I know, I’m a dork. It’s ok, you can say it. It doesn’t hurt my feelings, not anymore anyway. Actually it never did hurt my feelings….now fatso and lard ass….those names hurt my feelings. But, that’s not what this article is about. It’s about the wonderful world of masturbation….sounds like a theme park. “It’s a masturbating world after all”

So, what are my deep thoughts and perspective on masturbation? Without it I would have exploded a looooong time ago! All that pent-up sexual energy…it’s just not healthy! According to my Fundamentalist-masturbation-is-a-sin Mom I have been masturbating since I was a baby….I found a wrinkle in my diaper that I REALLY liked! My Mom knew that I would not be following in the footsteps of the stereotypical sex-is-a-wifely-duty-type of women…..for as long as I can remember my Mom has called me a passion flower.

In every relationship I have been in my sexual appetite was more intense than my partner’s. This is saying something considering that the relationships I was in before I was with my ex (the woman who caused me to see I was gay and not bi) were all with men. If it weren’t for masturbation, I would have been a total bitch to live with.

Sex/Masturbation is a stress reliever for me. It’s also a great way to have a good night’s sleep. I used to masturbate every night before going to sleep. On the nights that I couldn’t, for some reason, I slept crappy. I love sleepy sex. Masturbation is a pretty good substitute.

Masturbation is wonderful when you don’t want to mess with all the emotional crap that can take place when your partner isn’t in the mood. My ex used to use sex against me. That is until I discovered the wonders of the depo shot and Zoloft…..now I’m never in the mood. In fact, even the thought of having sex would turn my stomach. Maybe someday I’ll meet someone that will be worth going off Zoloft for………I don’t take Zoloft for the anti-depressant, I take it for migraines. It was a wild hair my Dr had and it seems to work. My migraines are now few and far between. Who knows, maybe my lack of sex drive isn’t due to drugs at all, but due to my ex’s behavior…..

I actually feel sorry for women that don’t enjoy masturbation. Initially I find it hard to believe when someone tells me that they don’t masturbate……but, if they are telling the truth, then I feel sorry for them. I don’t view masturbation being only for the single or imprisoned. Masturbating with your partner can be quite the turn-on…it will also show you how your partner likes to be fingered, etc. It’s a wonderful learning experience!

Masturbation, it’s a good thing!

by GirlieLezz