May
2005
19

Only one?

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It’s hard to come up with just one thing that I would want to change. I’m of the mindset that if there’s something that needs changing, I set about changing it. So, when I first saw this question my mind went to what would I change, that can’t be changed?

There are many things in my past I wish I had done differently….there’s nothing major, just those little things that would have resulted in my life turning out differently than it has. People I would have avoided, carbs I would have refused, opportunities I would have accepted, acquaintances I would have made friends, friends I would have invested more of myself in, friends I wouldn’t have invested so much of myself in….don’t even get me started on the relationships in my past! I’ve made a lot of wise choices….but, there have been even more choices that I just won’t get into. I just realized I sound like I’ve been around the block and stopped at every house on the way by! That’s not the case….my exes can be counted on one hand and a couple of fingers on the other hand….I’m one of those that doesn’t give up on a relationship when I should. I’m getting better at it.All in all, I like the woman I’m becoming. I’m making the changes that need to be made and becoming much more selective with who I invest myself in. I don’t believe in the philosophy that I must be a friend to everyone who wants to be my friend. To me, that’s just stupid. I can be a great acquaintance to many people, to few I am a fabulous friend. We’re careful where we invest our money, shouldn’t we be even more cautious with where we invest our hearts?

Before I end this novel…LOL….I just have to say the banner is FANTABULOUS!!! LOVE IT!!!

By GirlieLezz

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