2005
Why Must I Always Complain?
From Kathy…
Okay. This evening we (my lover of 24yrs, Doris& I) went to a party around the corner, Gay boys (Mel, Pete & their 2yr old) plus a lot of other gays & lesbians, plus hets & about 7 (noisy) kids. I dont know, maybe I just complain too much… It was a nice party, but damn, cant ya ever just go to a gay or just lesbian party???
Yeah, I know we all need to get along, but if I MUST go to a frickin party cant it just be a group of homosexual friends??? I mean we ALWAYS go to heterosexual parties or just go thru life mixing with them… Most of the straight flight attendants I work with are Good people. The Humongous Majority of passengers I work FOR are hets. The frickin’ pilots are not only straight, but asshole republicans. Do they HAVE to come to our damn parties too?
You know, ever since moving to the burbs 10 yrs ago - that was it. So much for the dyke lifestyle! That was Citylife. Dang, Im beginning to sound like Brian in Queer As Folk. And now we are all adopting kids (thank GODDESS that I didnt do that 15yrs ago when Doris told me I could) so NOW there are always children at all the fuckin’ parties. SHIT. Even our OWN parties (BBQ’s) are mixed (Mainly all D’s relatives, children, grandchildren & great grandchildren). (Okay we’re old..)
Is it too much to go to a gay party & expect to have just “FAMILY” there, just a group of Lesbians &/or Gays to laugh & act outrageous (more than usual) with? Yes, I LOVE my straight friends & neighboors, & I even love children (when they BEHAVE), but you gotta be responsible & Not Swear around the little sweet innocents & always pay attention that they dont hurt themselves. It’s like a damn job away from the job!
Actually, truth be told, I would have just rather stayed home, gotten in bed & watched TV. Boy have I become BORING.
Well, at least I DID go. Doris wanted to have dinner there since Mel is such a great cook- those Boy’s can really burn! And it WAS delicious. and it WAS nice. AND the straight people were the greatest. So I dont know why Im complaining.
I just like what I like
& want what I want.
SkyDyke or
BurbDyke…take your pick!
