2006
Guest Post Sent in from: Sarah
Lesbians hate bisexual women, apparently we’re too insecure to commit. Of course we’ll all run off with a man in the end and leave the ladies in pools of salty tears as we get married and have children and forget about our sinful homosexual past. Before you all brandish arms I have actually experienced this myself, so yes girls I do know what it feels like.
I’d like to clarify things. I’m a genuine bisexual. I have had monogamous relationships with both men and women; I like both men and women. The issues lesbians express or rather the lesbian press seems so joyously to express is surely a manifestation of issues that have nothing to do with a person’s sexuality but of their personality. I have had a relationship with a lesbian we were good together we split up because we wanted different things in life. I didn’t run off with a man, she wanted a family and a home, I didn’t. it was that simple. I have loved a bisexual women, I found her in bed with a man at a house party. She always was a player; it had nothing to do with her sexuality. She had the kind of personality that loves attention.
I struggled for years with my sexuality, I liked men, I liked women I’d never heard of bisexuality and I simply didn’t fit in to either of the homo or hetro boxes. If it hadn’t been for her I’d be lost at sea. She betrayed my trust, she also taught me to see things from a different perspective. I can’t say I wont trust a bisexual woman again, because it depends on who they are. I can say I wont trust her again though.
You see it’s all about the individual not the label. The gay scene as it is seems so proud to define itself, Make its mark on society and be heard. Ironic really that part of this process is to segregate and discriminate against people that can empathise with their situation. I can’t help but think that the bisexual excuse is an easy way of passing the buck.
