Comments on: "Your Going WHERE? With WHO?" http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/2006/08/29/your-going-where-with-who/ Thu, 09 Sep 2010 13:17:14 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: loveloyourobsession http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/2006/08/29/your-going-where-with-who/comment-page-1/#comment-3368 loveloyourobsession Tue, 23 Sep 2008 00:00:20 +0000 http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/?p=345#comment-3368 again this situation depends.. in your case you would never get back with an x.. but who is tosay nothing else would happen.. and even if nothing else happened.... every situation is different.. i have plenty of x's there is no reason in hell i would get with.... but the x's could have a hidden agenda... for instance i have an x who called me recently asking to take me out to dinner.. and tried to slide in that they had some things they needed to get off their chest... okkkk soooo.. its up to me to handle that... what if i said ok to that?? thats when it becomes an issue... or the fact that this person knows im in a relationship and still is trying to tell me something obviously involving.. feelings on their part... i told him if it had anything to do with us them or i or anything that if my girlfriend was standing right there listening would cause an issue or be disresectful towards her i didnt want to hear it... blah blah im just talking tho.. lol i can go on<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('3368','loveloyourobsession'); return false;">Reply</a> - <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('3368','loveloyourobsession','again this situation depends.. in your case you would never get back with an x.. but who is tosay nothing else would happen.. and even if nothing else happened.... every situation is different.. i have plenty of x\'s there is no reason in hell i would get with.... but the x\'s could have a hidden agenda... for instance i have an x who called me recently asking to take me out to dinner.. and tried to slide in that they had some things they needed to get off their chest... okkkk soooo.. its up to me to handle that... what if i said ok to that?? thats when it becomes an issue... or the fact that this person knows im in a relationship and still is trying to tell me something obviously involving.. feelings on their part... i told him if it had anything to do with us them or i or anything that if my girlfriend was standing right there listening would cause an issue or be disresectful towards her i didnt want to hear it... blah blah im just talking tho.. lol i can go on'); return false;">Quote</a></div> again this situation depends.. in your case you would never get back with an x.. but who is tosay nothing else would happen.. and even if nothing else happened…. every situation is different.. i have plenty of x’s there is no reason in hell i would get with…. but the x’s could have a hidden agenda… for instance i have an x who called me recently asking to take me out to dinner.. and tried to slide in that they had some things they needed to get off their chest… okkkk soooo.. its up to me to handle that… what if i said ok to that?? thats when it becomes an issue… or the fact that this person knows im in a relationship and still is trying to tell me something obviously involving.. feelings on their part… i told him if it had anything to do with us them or i or anything that if my girlfriend was standing right there listening would cause an issue or be disresectful towards her i didnt want to hear it… blah blah im just talking tho.. lol i can go on
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]]> By: Anonymous http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/2006/08/29/your-going-where-with-who/comment-page-1/#comment-229 Anonymous Mon, 25 Dec 2006 01:37:00 +0000 http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/?p=345#comment-229 Hmmmn...<br /><br />What is it about the lesbiens/lesbians reality that makes insecurities an acceptable part of the relationship package? For years I've thought there should be some sort of emotional finishing school requirement before one is allowed to embark on any journey that includes a partner.<br /><br />That said, how about freeing yourself from the leash you've had placed around you? Try dating someone who has as much to offer others as you do. Someone you've met your match in. Someone like me.<br /><br />Max<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('229','Anonymous'); return false;">Reply</a> - <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('229','Anonymous','Hmmmn...<br \/><br \/>What is it about the lesbiens\/lesbians reality that makes insecurities an acceptable part of the relationship package? For years I\'ve thought there should be some sort of emotional finishing school requirement before one is allowed to embark on any journey that includes a partner.<br \/><br \/>That said, how about freeing yourself from the leash you\'ve had placed around you? Try dating someone who has as much to offer others as you do. Someone you\'ve met your match in. Someone like me.<br \/><br \/>Max'); return false;">Quote</a></div> Hmmmn…

What is it about the lesbiens/lesbians reality that makes insecurities an acceptable part of the relationship package? For years I’ve thought there should be some sort of emotional finishing school requirement before one is allowed to embark on any journey that includes a partner.

That said, how about freeing yourself from the leash you’ve had placed around you? Try dating someone who has as much to offer others as you do. Someone you’ve met your match in. Someone like me.

Max

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]]> By: Yaya http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/2006/08/29/your-going-where-with-who/comment-page-1/#comment-125 Yaya Wed, 30 Aug 2006 15:00:00 +0000 http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/?p=345#comment-125 I would like to say that I am a bit like you, except that I insist that I keep her ex's as friends. Mine, I toss out like dirty rags, but hers need to be my friends. I get the scoop, I keep close proximity, and if we become friends, I ensure guilty, gut wrenching feelings if she was to ever want my girlfriend back. I don't suggest that everyone try it, but I have learned how to grow my relationship with my girlfriend, by getting info from the ex. I also learn what her downfalls are and how to avoid them, and to understand why she does the things she does. <br/>This is the only girlfriend who I have ever actually done this for. I love her and will continuously work on making this relationship work. She absolutely loves it. She says she has never had any of her exs be friends and it beats the heck out of them always fighting, having jealous fits, and so on. <br/>Actually, she loved it until we started to talk about her performance in the bed. I don't know why, SHE IS VERY VERY GOOD!!! Her ex and I can vouch for that.<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('125','Yaya'); return false;">Reply</a> - <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('125','Yaya','I would like to say that I am a bit like you, except that I insist that I keep her ex\'s as friends. Mine, I toss out like dirty rags, but hers need to be my friends. I get the scoop, I keep close proximity, and if we become friends, I ensure guilty, gut wrenching feelings if she was to ever want my girlfriend back. I don\'t suggest that everyone try it, but I have learned how to grow my relationship with my girlfriend, by getting info from the ex. I also learn what her downfalls are and how to avoid them, and to understand why she does the things she does. <br\/>This is the only girlfriend who I have ever actually done this for. I love her and will continuously work on making this relationship work. She absolutely loves it. She says she has never had any of her exs be friends and it beats the heck out of them always fighting, having jealous fits, and so on. <br\/>Actually, she loved it until we started to talk about her performance in the bed. I don\'t know why, SHE IS VERY VERY GOOD!!! Her ex and I can vouch for that.'); return false;">Quote</a></div> I would like to say that I am a bit like you, except that I insist that I keep her ex’s as friends. Mine, I toss out like dirty rags, but hers need to be my friends. I get the scoop, I keep close proximity, and if we become friends, I ensure guilty, gut wrenching feelings if she was to ever want my girlfriend back. I don’t suggest that everyone try it, but I have learned how to grow my relationship with my girlfriend, by getting info from the ex. I also learn what her downfalls are and how to avoid them, and to understand why she does the things she does.
This is the only girlfriend who I have ever actually done this for. I love her and will continuously work on making this relationship work. She absolutely loves it. She says she has never had any of her exs be friends and it beats the heck out of them always fighting, having jealous fits, and so on.
Actually, she loved it until we started to talk about her performance in the bed. I don’t know why, SHE IS VERY VERY GOOD!!! Her ex and I can vouch for that.
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