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I think that is truely wonderful that your love for her is so great. It takes a unique person to be able to do that. I wish the both of you happiness on your new journey. The gift of love is indeed the greatest gift.

Oh our dear Matt! We love you very much and we love how you love our girl! She is very lucky to have you in her life and I know that is very grateful for your support.

Hang in there and know that love will prevail for you both!

Love you!
Your lesbian “aunties”

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thank you.

What a great perspective. I am bisexual myself and I know there is the fear that I will turn from both sides. You have done really well by taking it in stride. Good luck!

I am very moved by this account of your lives and the turns they are taking. Keep us posted?

Love and Pride

Oh yea!

Hello, my name is Christa.

I am a volunteer with http://www.alesbianslife.com.

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I would like to find out how I could get our link posted to your blog.

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A Lesbian’s Life was founded in June 2006 to provide women with information and entertainment that explores the depth, richness and variations of our many life experiences. With our newly launched website, an upcoming blog and book, we expect to build this portal and begin filming an exciting new TV series. Each effort promises to address real-life issues in the lives of women who have not had the benefit of a voice that reaches far into our community and our world. We are committed to initiating a meaningful dialogue around issues important to all of us, to dispelling myths that exist within and outside of the community and to do away with the limited, stereotypical representations of lesbians that are prevalent today.

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Christa

Many people seem to have the crazy idea lesbians hate males. Men like you show why such a notion is ubsurd. I have no doubt you will find a remarkable woman to match your own remarkable self.

Peace be with you.

Your attitude is certainly admirable, but I would advise you to find your own place ASAP. You can’t turn love off like a switch, and so you are still in love with her and some of your good attitude is probably coming from that. You love her and want all good things for her. But the reality is when you start actually seeing her with girls, hearing about her dates or love interests (which she’ll surely want to tell you, her “best friend”, about) it will really hurt. Everytime will be like a little stab wound to the heart. This creates the opportunity for things to get ugly. You need to get some distance for your own sake.

I admire both of you. I’ve recently come to terms with the fact that I am bisexual and in love with a woman and I would be terrified to tell my husband. I am glad she was able to come to terms with it before you guys married or had children.

Wow.. thank you for posting this.

I was in a relationship for 3 years (my first) with a guy - and I broke it off, not because I realised I was gay (that came later) but because I knew I could never love him in the way that he deserved: the way he loved me.
yet he will always be a part of me and I will always love him. I love his kindness, and intellect and his capacity for reason and his talent and his love and his thoughtfulness and so many other things. Yet despite everything I loved in him - It would never have been fair to stay. because I did not love him enough - and as I come to understand my own sexuality more and more I understand exactly how much I wasn’t able to love him - and why. He will know - and it doesn;t matter because I don’t regret our relationship for a second and I learned many things and got to know an amazing person. I will always be thankful for that.

We remain friends to this day (3 years since) and my girlfriend (my only partner since, who I got together with a fair time after the brake up) and he get along really well.
But we are not as close as I once hoped - partly because I know that the fact I am gay - and that I did not tell him: that he had to guess - really hurt him. We have never really talked it through, not like we used to talk things through when we were together so I’m not sure exactly how he feels. But despite that pain he was a true friend when I came out and supported me whole hartedly and accepted my gf as a person whom I think he has even grown to respect. He never questioned me - never asked even if I was Bi, (although many others assume that my relationship with him ‘makes’ me Bi and politically I wish I was.) because I think he knew before I did that I am gay. I hope he knows that he is special is the only man I will ever love, I loved him as a person.
He is now engaged to a woman who is perfect for him and they will have what I would never have given him - a family.

What I wanted to say is that you are not alone in your position: although you have handled it far better then many. She is very lucky indeed to have you as a friend, although i will underline another’s comment when I say that it is a good idea for space, at least temporarily until you get over her. Otherwise the pain will twist inside.

Good luck to you - and thank you for loving her so much that you are willing to loose her as a partner in order to see her happy - thank you for being her friend.

I discovered I was gay when I was with my boyfriend, Jack. He was my first “real” boyfriend, and we were still in highschool. He was so understanding and supporting when I came out( heh, he even introduced me to my girlfriend and we are still happy as ever). I felt so terrible after I broke up with him. But he helped me through it. He showed me that it is okay to be true to yourself. So, you are not alone.