Comments on: Lesbians give lesbians a bad name! http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/2008/01/16/lesbians-give-lesbians-a-bad-name/ Thu, 29 Jul 2010 22:53:40 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: Nashoba J http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/2008/01/16/lesbians-give-lesbians-a-bad-name/comment-page-1/#comment-6464 Nashoba J Sat, 03 Jul 2010 22:16:49 +0000 http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/2008/01/16/lesbians-give-lesbians-a-bad-name/#comment-6464 There *are* lesbians out there who bed-hop...and there are gay men, straight men, and straight women who do the same thing. All lesbians are sluts just like all jocks are man-whores...or blondes with big boobs are whores... It's a stereotype that has been applied to lesbians (in my opinon) by a hetero-driven society that looks for any reason possible to deem homosexuality "bad."<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('6464','Nashoba J'); return false;">Reply</a> - <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('6464','Nashoba J','There *are* lesbians out there who bed-hop...and there are gay men, straight men, and straight women who do the same thing. All lesbians are sluts just like all jocks are man-whores...or blondes with big boobs are whores... It\'s a stereotype that has been applied to lesbians (in my opinon) by a hetero-driven society that looks for any reason possible to deem homosexuality \"bad.\"'); return false;">Quote</a></div> There *are* lesbians out there who bed-hop…and there are gay men, straight men, and straight women who do the same thing. All lesbians are sluts just like all jocks are man-whores…or blondes with big boobs are whores… It’s a stereotype that has been applied to lesbians (in my opinon) by a hetero-driven society that looks for any reason possible to deem homosexuality “bad.”
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]]> By: Anonypuss http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/2008/01/16/lesbians-give-lesbians-a-bad-name/comment-page-1/#comment-6406 Anonypuss Thu, 10 Jun 2010 05:12:49 +0000 http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/2008/01/16/lesbians-give-lesbians-a-bad-name/#comment-6406 Lesbians aren't real. They're like unicorns.<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('6406','Anonypuss'); return false;">Reply</a> - <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('6406','Anonypuss','Lesbians aren\'t real. They\'re like unicorns.'); return false;">Quote</a></div> Lesbians aren’t real. They’re like unicorns.
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]]> By: Salty http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/2008/01/16/lesbians-give-lesbians-a-bad-name/comment-page-1/#comment-6217 Salty Sat, 17 Apr 2010 13:38:38 +0000 http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/2008/01/16/lesbians-give-lesbians-a-bad-name/#comment-6217 Why compare lesbian relationships to hetero-relationships when men make the rules for heterosexuals. Why should lesbians live by hetero-fake standards? Who says a relationship should last a long time? What is a long time? I personally don't care what heterosexuals think about lesbians or about me. I live my life for me. Yes, I would like someone special in my life but I don't dwell on it lasting forever. There are women I would like to get to know and not all sexually. Just because some lesbians date different women, it doesn't mean they are having sex with them all, if any. Promiscuity is a heterosexual word for women who have sex or just date without worrying about finding a man who will want to marry them if they are not virgins.<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('6217','Salty'); return false;">Reply</a> - <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('6217','Salty','Why compare lesbian relationships to hetero-relationships when men make the rules for heterosexuals. Why should lesbians live by hetero-fake standards? Who says a relationship should last a long time? What is a long time? \r\n\r\nI personally don\'t care what heterosexuals think about lesbians or about me. I live my life for me. Yes, I would like someone special in my life but I don\'t dwell on it lasting forever. There are women I would like to get to know and not all sexually. Just because some lesbians date different women, it doesn\'t mean they are having sex with them all, if any. \r\n\r\nPromiscuity is a heterosexual word for women who have sex or just date without worrying about finding a man who will want to marry them if they are not virgins.'); return false;">Quote</a></div> Why compare lesbian relationships to hetero-relationships when men make the rules for heterosexuals. Why should lesbians live by hetero-fake standards? Who says a relationship should last a long time? What is a long time?

I personally don’t care what heterosexuals think about lesbians or about me. I live my life for me. Yes, I would like someone special in my life but I don’t dwell on it lasting forever. There are women I would like to get to know and not all sexually. Just because some lesbians date different women, it doesn’t mean they are having sex with them all, if any.

Promiscuity is a heterosexual word for women who have sex or just date without worrying about finding a man who will want to marry them if they are not virgins.

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]]> By: name leigh http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/2008/01/16/lesbians-give-lesbians-a-bad-name/comment-page-1/#comment-5704 name leigh Fri, 18 Dec 2009 18:26:46 +0000 http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/2008/01/16/lesbians-give-lesbians-a-bad-name/#comment-5704 I'm in heaven....lesbians who can speak in sentences and REASON. I'm so sick of "group think" . I don't watch the L word either; I hate watching straight women pretend to be gay. Actually I'm tired of movies-ANY movies- that have gratuitous sex scenes.There is definately something to say for modesty, spirituality, tenderness and monogamy. It seems all lesbians need are hump shots and mind f***s , power plays & drama. No thanks!And I'm so sick of games! Look in the mirror! I'm just one who has now given up...it's pathetic!<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('5704','name leigh'); return false;">Reply</a> - <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('5704','name leigh','I\'m in heaven....lesbians who can speak in sentences and REASON. \r\nI\'m so sick of \"group think\" . I don\'t watch the L word either; I hate watching straight women pretend to be gay.\r\n Actually I\'m tired of movies-ANY movies- that have gratuitous sex scenes.There is definately something to say for modesty, spirituality, tenderness and monogamy. It seems all lesbians need are hump shots and mind f***s , power plays & drama. No thanks!And I\'m so sick of games! Look in the mirror! I\'m just one who has now given up...it\'s pathetic!'); return false;">Quote</a></div> I’m in heaven….lesbians who can speak in sentences and REASON.
I’m so sick of “group think” . I don’t watch the L word either; I hate watching straight women pretend to be gay.
Actually I’m tired of movies-ANY movies- that have gratuitous sex scenes.There is definately something to say for modesty, spirituality, tenderness and monogamy. It seems all lesbians need are hump shots and mind f***s , power plays & drama. No thanks!And I’m so sick of games! Look in the mirror! I’m just one who has now given up…it’s pathetic!
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]]> By: Tara http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/2008/01/16/lesbians-give-lesbians-a-bad-name/comment-page-1/#comment-5632 Tara Tue, 24 Nov 2009 15:26:10 +0000 http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/2008/01/16/lesbians-give-lesbians-a-bad-name/#comment-5632 In my twenties, I indentified as straight. It was the same story: a small pool of friends ended up switching up partners all the time. One of my ex-boyfriends went from me to my best friend, and from her to her best friend. I got out of that by falling for a guy completely new to town. What a relief - no more Peyton Place. I came out in my thirties and have been with my (real, legal) WIFE for 9 years now. I know lots of same sex couples who have been together for 20, 30 years, so my perspective is quite different from the author. Maybe it's an age thing...young folks just tend to be more adventureous (shall we say?) and that can lead to multiple partners and big drama. Wising up, being mature and thoughtful as I age, I say "no" to the drama.<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('5632','Tara'); return false;">Reply</a> - <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('5632','Tara','In my twenties, I indentified as straight. It was the same story: a small pool of friends ended up switching up partners all the time. One of my ex-boyfriends went from me to my best friend, and from her to her best friend. I got out of that by falling for a guy completely new to town. What a relief - no more Peyton Place.\r\n\r\nI came out in my thirties and have been with my (real, legal) WIFE for 9 years now. I know lots of same sex couples who have been together for 20, 30 years, so my perspective is quite different from the author. Maybe it\'s an age thing...young folks just tend to be more adventureous (shall we say?) and that can lead to multiple partners and big drama. Wising up, being mature and thoughtful as I age, I say \"no\" to the drama.'); return false;">Quote</a></div> In my twenties, I indentified as straight. It was the same story: a small pool of friends ended up switching up partners all the time. One of my ex-boyfriends went from me to my best friend, and from her to her best friend. I got out of that by falling for a guy completely new to town. What a relief – no more Peyton Place.

I came out in my thirties and have been with my (real, legal) WIFE for 9 years now. I know lots of same sex couples who have been together for 20, 30 years, so my perspective is quite different from the author. Maybe it’s an age thing…young folks just tend to be more adventureous (shall we say?) and that can lead to multiple partners and big drama. Wising up, being mature and thoughtful as I age, I say “no” to the drama.

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