Archive for March, 2008

Mar
2008
31

falling in love is still cheating

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I have a complicated cheating story.
I suppose they’re all complicated, at least from the perspective of the cheater, because we at some point feel justified enough that it’s okay for us to cheat, in order to make the choices to do it. I doubt anyone goes out thinking, “oh, maybe I’ll cheat on my girlfriend [...]

Mar
2008
25

Define Sexy

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Sexy is strong, sculpted calf muscles that jump with amusement when warm hands wrap them in a gentle embrace.It is also higher up, the biceps that throb under the ministrations of soft succulent lips. Sexy is that sound she makes deep in her throat when she realizes you are awake. Moreover it is that sparkle [...]

Mar
2008
22

The hand that rocked our cradle

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There’s an urban legend that says that men think about sex every seven
seconds. Women a lot less, I am told.
Who knows? Who cares?
When you’re in a long-term relationship, however, this mere fact can tip the
balance severely.
The impact of parenthood on any (lesbian) relationship cannot be
underestimated as my SO and I have witnessed first-hand in our [...]

Mar
2008
17

For an Amazing Woman

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I wrote this letter for a good friend of mine. I am posting it here because I think it’s a good example of how certain relationships effect us.  
It was interesting to see your true colors, even if it was odd to read words from you that I never thought would be said. You have always towered [...]

Mar
2008
14

Bringing sexy back…

bringing-sexy-back

Here’s a mostly harmless observation for you: Women are sexy. It doesn’t matter what shape, size, age or colour they may be. They’re beautiful. Even when you’re not immediately attracted to a woman, if you stare at her long enough (not so long that she thinks you’re a stalker) you’ll find something alluring about her.
There’s [...]

Mar
2008
11

I’m A Threat?

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I’d like to write an open letter to Sally Kern, the Oklahoma Representative who spouted off about the horrors of the “gay agenda” at a meeting where she did not realize she was being taped, but RSG has already done it so well. Still, I might have to try. Sometimes, I think the ability to [...]

Mar
2008
10

I hate still loving her even more

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I let her in. She was the one I ran to when I was on the verge of tears. The one I wanted by my side when life threw all of it’s knives, bullets, and storms my way. She was the one woman after so many long years that I could open my heart to [...]

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