Mar
2008
07

Consent is Sexy

consent-is-sexy
Hot:

For March’s topic “define sexy.”

Sexy is in the way she walks. I notice her legs first, almost always. Her stride. The S curve of her ankles to her knees to her ass. Sexy is in the posture, in her spine, erect, in her shoulders, held back and confident.

It’s the power that is sexy, especially when combined with femininity. There’s nothing passive about it, she makes the space for me to walk in and sit right down, she puts the ideas of undressing her, unbuttoning that blouse, unzipping that skirt, into my head with just a glance. She knows how to engage, how to make it look like it’s my idea, like I’m in charge.

But I’m not.

Sexy is in the physical communication between us. The way I compensate when she pulls back, which is the reason she pulls back in the first place: she likes to see me strain. Likes to pull desire from me like a soul-sucking kiss. Likes to entice and invite until I reach that breaking point and just have to take her down. Have to hold her still, keep her from moving, break those charms from her mouth and remind her that I am a little stronger, a little bigger, remind her that there are consequences to her toying.

This place in me is just what she’s been seeking all along. She wants to be taken this way, she wants to know, to feel, how much I want her, how I cannot resist her any longer. She wants her intellect to be jolted, her physical body to be surprised so she can no longer theorize or prosthelytize, she can only animalistically respond with her primitive back brain, opening to force, opening to pressure, letting me take her, wishing it would never end.


related post

Sinclair,
sigh. you make me melt.

j.

by Jen on March 7th, 2008 at 2:44 PM

Hell, YES, Sinclair!!
Yum……………..
Jan

by Jan on March 7th, 2008 at 4:01 PM

you made me feel it…
wow.

by LQ on March 7th, 2008 at 8:27 PM

oh, boy. that’s so sexy, and smart, and hot. and just right. I adore the way you illuminate the power exchange.

by muse on March 10th, 2008 at 11:41 AM

Leave a Comment

Our Sponsors

Promote your blog on TLL

GLBT Ad Hives

LesbianBloggers
The Lesbian Blogger Ad Hive is a varied group of blogs written by lesbians of diverse backgrounds and interests and containing lesbian interest stories. Each blog has been hand picked for quality content that covers topics of concern to the lesbian community, including lesbian identity, relationships, politics, entertainment, and parenting. There are personal diaries, social commentaries, news headlines, and practical tips for daily life. Some are serious and some wickedly funny. Our readers are mainly lesbians, but may also include women, men, activists, and open-minded individuals of all orientations, identities, origins, and ages.
5
Follow TLL on Twitter

TLL's Facebook Group

Join TLL on Myspace

Send in your questions

Courtesy of Vibereview.com

See what films the Goldstar Dyke gave 4 Stars!

Lesbian Quotes

    I opposed the Defense of Marriage Act in 1996. It should be repealed and I will vote for its repeal on the Senate floor. I will also oppose any proposal to amend the U.S. Constitution to ban gays and lesbians from marrying. — Barack Obama