Like, for me, I’m pretty much a full on lezzy. I’m attracted to women emotionally and physically, and I have no interest in relationships or sex with men. Many women are like this for men: there’s no interest to be with a woman on any level. And then there are those who are only attracted to the same sex in a certain way [i.e., sexually or emotionally].

Hmm…I’ll stop there because I’m not sure if this is making sense… :/ I hope it came out at least a little logically.

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Straight chicks who have sex with women aren’t straight, in my opinion, they’re bi. If you genuinely have some genuine attraction to the same-sex even if minimal, you are not straight. For example, many gay gals I know would never be attracted to a guy for sex, even once, even if it’s “exotic.” If you’re just drunk and horney, well, that’s different – it’s called impaired judgment and I wouldn’t take advantage of that. You know, a woman of honor and all…

Hey, but Freud would say that we are all born bisexual to some extent…maybe he was right. Some of us might just be on the “very gay” or “very straight” part of the scale with some minor leanings in the other direction. Your friend did say that all women are only “one drink away.”

So, let’s start there. She’s likely bi…but overwhelmingly hetero. Sexuality is on a continuum. That’s why sometimes, you end up dating them. The good thing is that if she’s in it for sex, and so are you – you’re golden. The bad news is that if you want sex AND some type of recognition, you are likely screwed. She’s not likely to want to hold your hand on the street in devil-may-care attitude (unless it’s just for “shock effect” (which is kind of offensive), and you don’t want to be a “novelty,” but a real person. Even if you are just a real person banging her.

I disagree with the “popping the lesbian cherry” part. Many women won’t want to go “downtown” on a woman who has just had a penis there yesterday getting all messy. But hey, you don’t have to go there, and should be using a dental dam anyway.

I don’t find “power” or “challenge” that exciting…mostly because I believe you can find that anywhere. I’ve always asked out whatever chick I found attractive, so it isn’t some big additional thrill. I think it’s a big mistake to assume that a straight chick just wants you to “take control” or “show her the ropes.” Remember, she kind of has those girl parts too. She’s likely masturbated, maybe used a vibrator, etc..this isn’t such new territory. And she may have very specific ideas of what she wants, and what she’s interested in.

You might end up very surprised…for better or worse.

Interesting take.