Comments on: Queer Butch Dyke http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/2008/07/16/queer_butch_dyke/ Fri, 12 Mar 2010 14:20:22 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Kindra http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/2008/07/16/queer_butch_dyke/comment-page-1/#comment-4922 Kindra Fri, 01 May 2009 14:41:44 +0000 http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/?p=942#comment-4922 I feel for your situation. I'm in the position of your wife, as my partner has the same issues with body image. It would be really difficult for me if Mikey were to undergo drastic surgery, as I love the body Mikey has now. However.... it's more important to me that Mikey be happy. I will support whatever decision is eventually made.<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('4922','Kindra'); return false;">Reply</a> - <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('4922','Kindra','I feel for your situation. I\'m in the position of your wife, as my partner has the same issues with body image. It would be really difficult for me if Mikey were to undergo drastic surgery, as I love the body Mikey has now. However.... it\'s more important to me that Mikey be happy. I will support whatever decision is eventually made.'); return false;">Quote</a></div> I feel for your situation. I’m in the position of your wife, as my partner has the same issues with body image. It would be really difficult for me if Mikey were to undergo drastic surgery, as I love the body Mikey has now. However…. it’s more important to me that Mikey be happy. I will support whatever decision is eventually made.
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]]> By: shirley http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/2008/07/16/queer_butch_dyke/comment-page-1/#comment-4056 shirley Tue, 23 Dec 2008 19:38:50 +0000 http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/?p=942#comment-4056 hey jess i was just on google and came across this..i think its really cool.im only 14 and i feel the same way.id like to hear more of your stuff and get somemore advice on things.i know you may think im at a young age but i dont think that at all..ive been therw alot in my life and ive grown up really fast..ive always thought of myself as a guy i look like one act like one and talk like one..but i have problems admitting that im a girl.like when i meet girls somewhere i tell them that my name is ryan and they never find out the truth but sometimes i hate liein to them..and im scared that im going to fall in love with them and then have to tell them the truth..what do you think?<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('4056','shirley'); return false;">Reply</a> - <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('4056','shirley','hey jess i was just on google and came across this..i think its really cool.im only 14 and i feel the same way.id like to hear more of your stuff and get somemore advice on things.i know you may think im at a young age but i dont think that at all..ive been therw alot in my life and ive grown up really fast..ive always thought of myself as a guy i look like one act like one and talk like one..but i have problems admitting that im a girl.like when i meet girls somewhere i tell them that my name is ryan and they never find out the truth but sometimes i hate liein to them..and im scared that im going to fall in love with them and then have to tell them the truth..what do you think?'); return false;">Quote</a></div> hey jess i was just on google and came across this..i think its really cool.im only 14 and i feel the same way.id like to hear more of your stuff and get somemore advice on things.i know you may think im at a young age but i dont think that at all..ive been therw alot in my life and ive grown up really fast..ive always thought of myself as a guy i look like one act like one and talk like one..but i have problems admitting that im a girl.like when i meet girls somewhere i tell them that my name is ryan and they never find out the truth but sometimes i hate liein to them..and im scared that im going to fall in love with them and then have to tell them the truth..what do you think?
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]]> By: thelesbianlifestyle.com » Blog Archive » Queer Butch Dyke Revisited http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/2008/07/16/queer_butch_dyke/comment-page-1/#comment-3013 thelesbianlifestyle.com » Blog Archive » Queer Butch Dyke Revisited Fri, 25 Jul 2008 16:39:00 +0000 http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/?p=942#comment-3013 [...] Butch Dyke Revisited If you haven’t read my partner’s entry about being a Queer Butch Dyke — you [...]<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('3013','thelesbianlifestyle.com » Blog Archive » Queer Butch Dyke Revisited'); return false;">Reply</a> - <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('3013','thelesbianlifestyle.com » Blog Archive » Queer Butch Dyke Revisited','[...] Butch Dyke Revisited If you haven’t read my partner’s entry about being a Queer Butch Dyke — you [...]'); return false;">Quote</a></div> [...] Butch Dyke Revisited If you haven’t read my partner’s entry about being a Queer Butch Dyke — you [...]
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]]> By: Dharma Kelleher http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/2008/07/16/queer_butch_dyke/comment-page-1/#comment-2967 Dharma Kelleher Fri, 18 Jul 2008 18:37:54 +0000 http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/?p=942#comment-2967 Jess, It's always comforting to know that I'm not the only one who struggles with the subtleties of gender identity. Like you, I prefer to call myself genderqueer. I've also been through gender-related surgery. The one thing I've learned through all of my explorations of gender and sexuality is that what's most important is to love and accept myself and to realize that I am not my body. That doesn't mean I can't or shouldn't change things about my physical self. But it allows me to enjoy every day and to make better decisions about what I want to change and why. Keep opening up to your true feelings. And remember that you are worth loving! Peace out, Dharma<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('2967','Dharma Kelleher'); return false;">Reply</a> - <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('2967','Dharma Kelleher','Jess,\r\nIt\'s always comforting to know that I\'m not the only one who struggles with the subtleties of gender identity. Like you, I prefer to call myself genderqueer. I\'ve also been through gender-related surgery.\r\n\r\nThe one thing I\'ve learned through all of my explorations of gender and sexuality is that what\'s most important is to love and accept myself and to realize that I am not my body. That doesn\'t mean I can\'t or shouldn\'t change things about my physical self. But it allows me to enjoy every day and to make better decisions about what I want to change and why.\r\n\r\nKeep opening up to your true feelings. And remember that you are worth loving!\r\n\r\nPeace out,\r\nDharma'); return false;">Quote</a></div> Jess,
It’s always comforting to know that I’m not the only one who struggles with the subtleties of gender identity. Like you, I prefer to call myself genderqueer. I’ve also been through gender-related surgery.

The one thing I’ve learned through all of my explorations of gender and sexuality is that what’s most important is to love and accept myself and to realize that I am not my body. That doesn’t mean I can’t or shouldn’t change things about my physical self. But it allows me to enjoy every day and to make better decisions about what I want to change and why.

Keep opening up to your true feelings. And remember that you are worth loving!

Peace out,
Dharma

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]]> By: lori http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/2008/07/16/queer_butch_dyke/comment-page-1/#comment-2966 lori Thu, 17 Jul 2008 05:07:19 +0000 http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/?p=942#comment-2966 Jero - You've got some kahonies (sp) my friend. I love, love, love your honesty and your self-reflection. You are one dynamite kid (sorry, I get to do that at my age). You have a lovely wife who loves you tons with every word she writes and you can do anything, I'm sure of it, without losing anything. loris last blog post..<a href="http://hahnathome.com/?p=1013" rel="nofollow">Not Safe For Work - Me, Not the Blog, Okay?</a><div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('2966','lori'); return false;">Reply</a> - <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('2966','lori','Jero - You\'ve got some kahonies (sp) my friend. I love, love, love your honesty and your self-reflection. You are one dynamite kid (sorry, I get to do that at my age). You have a lovely wife who loves you tons with every word she writes and you can do anything, I\'m sure of it, without losing anything.\n\nloris last blog post..<a href=\"http:\/\/hahnathome.com\/?p=1013\" rel=\"nofollow\">Not Safe For Work - Me, Not the Blog, Okay?<\/a>'); return false;">Quote</a></div> Jero – You’ve got some kahonies (sp) my friend. I love, love, love your honesty and your self-reflection. You are one dynamite kid (sorry, I get to do that at my age). You have a lovely wife who loves you tons with every word she writes and you can do anything, I’m sure of it, without losing anything.

loris last blog post..Not Safe For Work – Me, Not the Blog, Okay?

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