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		<title>By: honey</title>
		<link>http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/2008/07/26/i-am-not-who-i-appear-to-be/comment-page-1/#comment-3037</link>
		<dc:creator>honey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Jul 2008 17:58:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey Moe,

It&#039;s great to know that there&#039;s another butch out there that&#039;s into other butches. I only dated femmes until I met my current girlfriend, Agent, about 7 years ago. It just works for me on so many levels and it makes me feel even more queer which is hot too.

I like to call myself &quot;gayer than gay&quot; because my relationship is outside the established norm within my own queer community. It&#039;s rare to meet people who not only identify as butch, but also find other butches as attractive possibilities for love. It sounds to me like you have a good sense of style, and you really shouldn&#039;t have any trouble finding exactly what you&#039;re looking for.

Good luck!
Honey

honeys last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/koencidence/~3/346094980/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;My First Love&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;comment-remix-meta&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;replyto&quot; onclick=&quot;replyto(&#039;3037&#039;,&#039;honey&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Reply&lt;/a&gt;  - &lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;quote&quot; onclick=&quot;quote(&#039;3037&#039;,&#039;honey&#039;,&#039;Hey Moe,\r\n\r\nIt\&#039;s great to know that there\&#039;s another butch out there that\&#039;s into other butches. I only dated femmes until I met my current girlfriend, Agent, about 7 years ago. It just works for me on so many levels and it makes me feel even more queer which is hot too.\r\n\r\nI like to call myself \&quot;gayer than gay\&quot; because my relationship is outside the established norm within my own queer community. It\&#039;s rare to meet people who not only identify as butch, but also find other butches as attractive possibilities for love. It sounds to me like you have a good sense of style, and you really shouldn\&#039;t have any trouble finding exactly what you\&#039;re looking for.\r\n\r\nGood luck!\r\nHoney\n\nhoneys last blog post..&lt;a href=\&quot;http:\/\/feeds.feedburner.com\/~r\/koencidence\/~3\/346094980\/\&quot; rel=\&quot;nofollow\&quot;&gt;My First Love&lt;\/a&gt;&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Quote&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Moe,</p>
<p>It&#8217;s great to know that there&#8217;s another butch out there that&#8217;s into other butches. I only dated femmes until I met my current girlfriend, Agent, about 7 years ago. It just works for me on so many levels and it makes me feel even more queer which is hot too.</p>
<p>I like to call myself &#8220;gayer than gay&#8221; because my relationship is outside the established norm within my own queer community. It&#8217;s rare to meet people who not only identify as butch, but also find other butches as attractive possibilities for love. It sounds to me like you have a good sense of style, and you really shouldn&#8217;t have any trouble finding exactly what you&#8217;re looking for.</p>
<p>Good luck!<br />
Honey</p>
<p>honeys last blog post..<a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/koencidence/~3/346094980/" rel="nofollow">My First Love</a>
<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('3037','honey'); return false;">Reply</a>  &#8211; <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('3037','honey','Hey Moe,\r\n\r\nIt\'s great to know that there\'s another butch out there that\'s into other butches. I only dated femmes until I met my current girlfriend, Agent, about 7 years ago. It just works for me on so many levels and it makes me feel even more queer which is hot too.\r\n\r\nI like to call myself \&quot;gayer than gay\&quot; because my relationship is outside the established norm within my own queer community. It\'s rare to meet people who not only identify as butch, but also find other butches as attractive possibilities for love. It sounds to me like you have a good sense of style, and you really shouldn\'t have any trouble finding exactly what you\'re looking for.\r\n\r\nGood luck!\r\nHoney\n\nhoneys last blog post..&lt;a href=\&quot;http:\/\/feeds.feedburner.com\/~r\/koencidence\/~3\/346094980\/\&quot; rel=\&quot;nofollow\&quot;&gt;My First Love&lt;\/a&gt;'); return false;">Quote</a></div>
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		<title>By: Jess</title>
		<link>http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/2008/07/26/i-am-not-who-i-appear-to-be/comment-page-1/#comment-3025</link>
		<dc:creator>Jess</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Jul 2008 15:48:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Moe, 

Loved this post (and your family posts too btw). I wish I was as comfortable with my self as you are. That&#039;s awesome.  Just goes to help prove that we&#039;re all so different. I don&#039;t fit the stereotype in many ways.  I don&#039;t like to play sports, I&#039;m ultra sensitive (I&#039;d rather watch a chick flick than an action movie any day of the week).  I bottom just as much as I top. etc.

Good luck with the mechanic thing, and with finding the butch of your dreams.  Being a butch who&#039;s into femmes, the thought of two butches together confused me for a long time, then one day I saw two butches fucking in a porno and then I understood the hottness.  Rock on buddy.  

Jess

Jesss last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/Houseofjerocom/~3/344983595/world-that-stands-as-one.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;&quot;A World That Stands As One&quot;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;comment-remix-meta&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;replyto&quot; onclick=&quot;replyto(&#039;3025&#039;,&#039;Jess&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Reply&lt;/a&gt;  - &lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;quote&quot; onclick=&quot;quote(&#039;3025&#039;,&#039;Jess&#039;,&#039;Moe, \r\n\r\nLoved this post (and your family posts too btw). I wish I was as comfortable with my self as you are. That\&#039;s awesome.  Just goes to help prove that we\&#039;re all so different. I don\&#039;t fit the stereotype in many ways.  I don\&#039;t like to play sports, I\&#039;m ultra sensitive (I\&#039;d rather watch a chick flick than an action movie any day of the week).  I bottom just as much as I top. etc.\r\n\r\nGood luck with the mechanic thing, and with finding the butch of your dreams.  Being a butch who\&#039;s into femmes, the thought of two butches together confused me for a long time, then one day I saw two butches fucking in a porno and then I understood the hottness.  Rock on buddy.  \r\n\r\nJess\n\nJesss last blog post..&lt;a href=\&quot;http:\/\/feeds.feedburner.com\/~r\/Houseofjerocom\/~3\/344983595\/world-that-stands-as-one.html\&quot; rel=\&quot;nofollow\&quot;&gt;&quot;A World That Stands As One&quot;&lt;\/a&gt;&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Quote&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Moe, </p>
<p>Loved this post (and your family posts too btw). I wish I was as comfortable with my self as you are. That&#8217;s awesome.  Just goes to help prove that we&#8217;re all so different. I don&#8217;t fit the stereotype in many ways.  I don&#8217;t like to play sports, I&#8217;m ultra sensitive (I&#8217;d rather watch a chick flick than an action movie any day of the week).  I bottom just as much as I top. etc.</p>
<p>Good luck with the mechanic thing, and with finding the butch of your dreams.  Being a butch who&#8217;s into femmes, the thought of two butches together confused me for a long time, then one day I saw two butches fucking in a porno and then I understood the hottness.  Rock on buddy.  </p>
<p>Jess</p>
<p>Jesss last blog post..<a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/Houseofjerocom/~3/344983595/world-that-stands-as-one.html" rel="nofollow">&quot;A World That Stands As One&quot;</a>
<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('3025','Jess'); return false;">Reply</a>  &#8211; <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('3025','Jess','Moe, \r\n\r\nLoved this post (and your family posts too btw). I wish I was as comfortable with my self as you are. That\'s awesome.  Just goes to help prove that we\'re all so different. I don\'t fit the stereotype in many ways.  I don\'t like to play sports, I\'m ultra sensitive (I\'d rather watch a chick flick than an action movie any day of the week).  I bottom just as much as I top. etc.\r\n\r\nGood luck with the mechanic thing, and with finding the butch of your dreams.  Being a butch who\'s into femmes, the thought of two butches together confused me for a long time, then one day I saw two butches fucking in a porno and then I understood the hottness.  Rock on buddy.  \r\n\r\nJess\n\nJesss last blog post..&lt;a href=\&quot;http:\/\/feeds.feedburner.com\/~r\/Houseofjerocom\/~3\/344983595\/world-that-stands-as-one.html\&quot; rel=\&quot;nofollow\&quot;&gt;&amp;quot;A World That Stands As One&amp;quot;&lt;\/a&gt;'); return false;">Quote</a></div>
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		<title>By: Lesley</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lesley</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Jul 2008 14:17:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You don&#039;t seem to be as abnormal as all that.  It might be that &#039;butch&#039; is becoming too broad a word(or too narrow) to accurately describe the lived experience of many outwardly masculine lesbians...&lt;div class=&quot;comment-remix-meta&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;replyto&quot; onclick=&quot;replyto(&#039;3024&#039;,&#039;Lesley&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Reply&lt;/a&gt;  - &lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;quote&quot; onclick=&quot;quote(&#039;3024&#039;,&#039;Lesley&#039;,&#039;You don\&#039;t seem to be as abnormal as all that.  It might be that \&#039;butch\&#039; is becoming too broad a word(or too narrow) to accurately describe the lived experience of many outwardly masculine lesbians...&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Quote&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You don&#8217;t seem to be as abnormal as all that.  It might be that &#8216;butch&#8217; is becoming too broad a word(or too narrow) to accurately describe the lived experience of many outwardly masculine lesbians&#8230;
<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('3024','Lesley'); return false;">Reply</a>  &#8211; <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('3024','Lesley','You don\'t seem to be as abnormal as all that.  It might be that \'butch\' is becoming too broad a word(or too narrow) to accurately describe the lived experience of many outwardly masculine lesbians...'); return false;">Quote</a></div>
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		<title>By: Lori</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lori</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Jul 2008 22:57:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I was just talking to a friend of mine who is lamenting finding a bottom butch.  She&#039;s a top femme.  Maybe they should start a registry somewhere.

Loris last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://hahnathome.com/?p=1030&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Aussies Lesbians Lose Suit Against Fertility Doctor&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;comment-remix-meta&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;replyto&quot; onclick=&quot;replyto(&#039;3023&#039;,&#039;Lori&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Reply&lt;/a&gt;  - &lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;quote&quot; onclick=&quot;quote(&#039;3023&#039;,&#039;Lori&#039;,&#039;I was just talking to a friend of mine who is lamenting finding a bottom butch.  She\&#039;s a top femme.  Maybe they should start a registry somewhere.\n\nLoris last blog post..&lt;a href=\&quot;http:\/\/hahnathome.com\/?p=1030\&quot; rel=\&quot;nofollow\&quot;&gt;Aussies Lesbians Lose Suit Against Fertility Doctor&lt;\/a&gt;&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Quote&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was just talking to a friend of mine who is lamenting finding a bottom butch.  She&#8217;s a top femme.  Maybe they should start a registry somewhere.</p>
<p>Loris last blog post..<a href="http://hahnathome.com/?p=1030" rel="nofollow">Aussies Lesbians Lose Suit Against Fertility Doctor</a>
<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('3023','Lori'); return false;">Reply</a>  &#8211; <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('3023','Lori','I was just talking to a friend of mine who is lamenting finding a bottom butch.  She\'s a top femme.  Maybe they should start a registry somewhere.\n\nLoris last blog post..&lt;a href=\&quot;http:\/\/hahnathome.com\/?p=1030\&quot; rel=\&quot;nofollow\&quot;&gt;Aussies Lesbians Lose Suit Against Fertility Doctor&lt;\/a&gt;'); return false;">Quote</a></div>
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