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I don’t can’t say if it’s true or not — but — I hope it is.

She’d be a welcome addition. And if I were 15 years younger I’d be all over her. LOL

It’s no one’s job to validate our community. How many non-celebrities have you known that “tinkered” in our community then left?

Psh..

Thx for the purty pics!

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I tried commenting a minute ago but it didn’t go through. Here it goes again (never as good as the first time)

I just hope she’s not an Anne Heche “lesbian”. That would suck.

Lindsay is pretty. Very pretty, hot even. But I think she’s cuter than she is hot.. something about the red hair and freckles.

Sam must have some kind of game. Props for that.

Sorry about the comment issue Jess. I will investigate the issue.

I don’t care — love is love and perhaps she fell in love with a woman, seems to be the case.

And more love between women only does more for “the cause” in my opinion the “normalization” of the experience.

And Lindsay frankly is hot as hell – I’d go for her at my ancient age.

janet

Sexuality is fluid. Maybe she found something overwhelmingly attractive about Sam. Maybe she’s straight as a pole and they’re just uncommonly friendly. Maybe she’s a wicked homo and secretly writes L Word fic. Only Lindsay knows…

As for whether or not the relationship would be “good for the community”: any visibility is good for the community. One of the biggest issues is the invisibility of gays, whether it’s because we’re ignored or in the closet. But I’d really like to see her NOT comment on her sexuality, since I think she’s coming from a fragile place and it’s obvious that Sam has potential to be a rebound from rehab, regardless of her gender.

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Lindsay has an interesting past with women. Her ex-bodyguard alleges that he’s had to go and round her up from many different scenes and scenarios (making out with a chick in a bathroom), grabbing mariah carey, etc…but to be honest, I think she’s bi. She genuinely seems to like men also, and enjoy sex with them a lot. I don’t think that takes away from the fact that she could be in completely in love with this woman. Bi women just have the capacity to love either.

This relationship seems a little different for her though, it’s made her more stable. She’s not using (according to her dad), and she’s not the crazy partier (according to the police chief) that she used to be. She’s kind of settled down….and whether it’s the great morning sex or a great friendship, either way, I’m for it.

I think it’s no secret that she and Samantha are involved in a relationship…but Lindsay stands to lose a lot coming out. She’s been playing it like Portia did before she met Ellen. She held hands with her ex (Francesca Gregorini), took her to premieres, etc…but never commented on her sexuality…even when there was a photo of her making out in an alley with her.

Lindsay is taking the same route….and it’s a smart one….for now. A lot of teenage girls (her fan base) may not want to buy albums that would label them “gay.”

Juls last blog post..Mary Louise-Parker wanted to be more gay.

I hate that the only reason this is up for debate is because she’s femme. Nobody is debating whether or not the dozens of celebrity soft butches are gay.

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Hey Nikkis –

I don’t think the only reason people debate this is because she’s “femme,” I think it’s because she has quite a track record of banging guys.

Just a thought.

Juls last blog post..Mary Louise-Parker wanted to be more gay.

I don’t think it’s a femme thing either. I think it’s more of a surprise thing. Before this relationship Lindsey was never on my gaydar.

However I would like the names of those dozens of celebrity soft butches.

Amen. Gimme a list.

And leave kd off it. LOL

Pink? Is she a soft butch? People debate whether she’s gay….

Juls last blog post..Mary Louise-Parker wanted to be more gay.

I’m totally on the fence on this one. Spent some time mulling it over yesterday when the Bazaar interview hit the web. Have read alot about the influence that Lindsay’s mom has on her and think this could be part of the issue. I think she seems happier now than in her DUI-past so perhaps it’s love. I hope she’s gay because she is savage hot.

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I think maybe a big part of all her troubles and her emotional breakdowns/drinking problems/family problems, etc. were BECAUSE she was trying to figure out if she were gay, what to do about it, etc. Think of what trauam just some “regular” youngsters have to go through to come out and then put that on national TV with 1,000 cameras in your face. I HOPE that finding love with Sam, and maybe some positive feedback, will help her get on track with herself. She deserves as much happiness as anyone else, and we all know that money and fame don’t buy that!

GG

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Do you know how many supposedly “straight” girls I know who have crushes on me or whisper things to me in private when no one’s listening (including me sometimes lol). I think that when someone is genuine, and caring and understands you it doesn’t matter if it’s a girl or a guy — that’s really attractive and if it’s someone of the same sex it’s a little dangerous and more thrilling to girls who have never experienced that kind of feeling before. I have nothing to say about this story other than I think she is so cute and can really lead life any way she chooses. She can play it any way she wants and I’m all for her.

If Lindsay is a lesbian, I say “Yay, Lindsey!!!” It’s always better to have another on our team. Especially a hot one. And maybe it would encourage more celebrities to be open with their sexuality, or even come out the closet.

I think she should love whom she wants, regardless of what gender. Personally I’d love to see her with someone who doesn’t wear fedoras and t-shirts all the time, but you can’t win them all.

To be honest with you, I don’t think it deserves a label. We cannot control who we are connected to and if her and Sam’s stars line up at the moment, then so be it and I am happy for them. I see scenarios like this all the time, “Bi woman” find someone that they connect with, get in a relationship, and then go back to dating guys.

Oh man. When I heard that Lindsey was dating another girl–Sam’s very cute, btw–I was like, “Oh my god, no way!” *^.^* Very excited.
But…I think maybe she’s doing it for show. e_e
I agree with GSD–she didn’t pop up on my gaydar back then–and also, maybe she’s going to women because she’s been hurt by guys?
*shrugs*
Whatever. It’s her drama-llama life.
:3

@Julie – I know, right? Woo, go Lindsey!

Does it really matter if Lindsay is a lesbian? There are some amazing women out there and also amazing guys…it would be more beneficial to the lesbian community if people of all sexual preferences were open minded. By man bashing, lesbians are encouraging discrimination. Let’s encourage openness and right for someone to choose who they want to be. Sex is probably the greatest gift in life! Let’s embrace it in all facets and practice what we preach! If you want to get a gift for your lover, you should check out http://www.velvetpearls.com
Awesome site! Peace

Nowadays the trend is to go both ways, something like the emo-tila tequila style.I understand her, at her age everyone wants to stand out and this is her way of doing it. When the hype goes and she stops consuming substances, LOL, she is going to be like “what the …. was I thinking”

it irks me that people are actually contemplating this; LOVE is LOVE. it’s probably hard for some people to even think she’s a lesbian because she’s femme… but the truth of the matter is femmes do exist… and they love women.

I believe she is bisexual. I also have a feeling that Samatha will end up getting the raw deal here. I think that Lindsey cares for Samatha but no where near the level in which Sam cares for her. If this is the case, that is a shame, I think Sam is adorable.

I think if she is, she is. I don’t think she would sit there wasting her time in a relationship; if it didn’t mean anything to her. So I am sure she is really is in love with Samantha.

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She could be my pillow princess anyday. Lol.