think that both goldstar’s point about having children with the one you’re with (and why you don’t consider this if you love her), and Shanna (who made the point that many bisexual women are happily partnered with women) are things to consider and well stated….

I’m not an advice panelist, but I’d also emphasize (as did others) why you might not feel the same way about your girl as you once did. In the drudgery of everyday life, you have to keep it fresh – at least I do…and sometimes, that means making a little effort for a huge return. If you’re just not attracted to her anymore, or are just interested in dating men…it’s an area for further exploration.

good luck from a reader.