Comments on: Life as a pregnant lesbian… http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/2008/09/15/life-as-a-pregnant-lesbian/ Mon, 21 May 2012 19:48:39 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: CristiZen http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/2008/09/15/life-as-a-pregnant-lesbian/comment-page-1/#comment-9766 CristiZen Sun, 29 May 2011 19:31:17 +0000 http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/?p=1343#comment-9766 I am going through a similiar situation myself. After my 4 year relationship with my ex girlfriend ended abruptly, I went out a lot to cure my heartbreak and ended up sleeping with a guy friend after too much to drink one night and then found out I was pregnant! I moved back to my hometown and fell in love with an amazing woman. The pregnancy has been an odd thing for the both of us because we have no idea how it will be and it does make things a little bit awkward in the intimacy department but she's willing to try to make this is a wonderful relationship plus a baby! :) None of my GLBT friends have children so I don't really have anyone to talk to about this and I would love to hear more about how having a baby changes the dynamics of a lesbian relationship!<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('9766','CristiZen'); return false;">Reply</a> - <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('9766','CristiZen','I am going through a similiar situation myself. After my 4 year relationship with my ex girlfriend ended abruptly, I went out a lot to cure my heartbreak and ended up sleeping with a guy friend after too much to drink one night and then found out I was pregnant! I moved back to my hometown and fell in love with an amazing woman. The pregnancy has been an odd thing for the both of us because we have no idea how it will be and it does make things a little bit awkward in the intimacy department but she\'s willing to try to make this is a wonderful relationship plus a baby! :) None of my GLBT friends have children so I don\'t really have anyone to talk to about this and I would love to hear more about how having a baby changes the dynamics of a lesbian relationship!'); return false;">Quote</a></div> I am going through a similiar situation myself. After my 4 year relationship with my ex girlfriend ended abruptly, I went out a lot to cure my heartbreak and ended up sleeping with a guy friend after too much to drink one night and then found out I was pregnant! I moved back to my hometown and fell in love with an amazing woman. The pregnancy has been an odd thing for the both of us because we have no idea how it will be and it does make things a little bit awkward in the intimacy department but she’s willing to try to make this is a wonderful relationship plus a baby! :) None of my GLBT friends have children so I don’t really have anyone to talk to about this and I would love to hear more about how having a baby changes the dynamics of a lesbian relationship!
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]]> By: KY http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/2008/09/15/life-as-a-pregnant-lesbian/comment-page-1/#comment-9719 KY Tue, 17 May 2011 14:50:26 +0000 http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/?p=1343#comment-9719 I don't think pregnancy or having children would impair your dating life. I previously would not consider dating women with children, but I recently met a woman who is pregnant and single, and I'm deeply intrigued by her. As for the no children thing, well it's out of the window. The world and its people are constantly changing; you're not until you are and que sera sera. Good luck for all of you out there.<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('9719','KY'); return false;">Reply</a> - <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('9719','KY','I don\'t think pregnancy or having children would impair your dating life. I previously would not consider dating women with children, but I recently met a woman who is pregnant and single, and I\'m deeply intrigued by her. As for the no children thing, well it\'s out of the window. The world and its people are constantly changing; you\'re not until you are and que sera sera. Good luck for all of you out there.'); return false;">Quote</a></div> I don’t think pregnancy or having children would impair your dating life. I previously would not consider dating women with children, but I recently met a woman who is pregnant and single, and I’m deeply intrigued by her. As for the no children thing, well it’s out of the window. The world and its people are constantly changing; you’re not until you are and que sera sera. Good luck for all of you out there.
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]]> By: Alex Kay http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/2008/09/15/life-as-a-pregnant-lesbian/comment-page-1/#comment-9302 Alex Kay Thu, 10 Feb 2011 05:54:41 +0000 http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/?p=1343#comment-9302 I am going through the same thing. I am only 21 and recently found out I was pregnant. All though shocked its a miracle, and I couldnt be happier. I have Multiple Sclerosis, and I want to be able to walk and play with my children. Each year that chance gets lesser and lesser for me. Thankfully financially I am stable for it, but anyways I would love to know how things are going for you?!<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('9302','Alex Kay'); return false;">Reply</a> - <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('9302','Alex Kay','I am going through the same thing. I am only 21 and recently found out I was pregnant. All though shocked its a miracle, and I couldnt be happier. I have Multiple Sclerosis, and I want to be able to walk and play with my children. Each year that chance gets lesser and lesser for me. Thankfully financially I am stable for it, but anyways I would love to know how things are going for you?!'); return false;">Quote</a></div> I am going through the same thing. I am only 21 and recently found out I was pregnant. All though shocked its a miracle, and I couldnt be happier. I have Multiple Sclerosis, and I want to be able to walk and play with my children. Each year that chance gets lesser and lesser for me. Thankfully financially I am stable for it, but anyways I would love to know how things are going for you?!
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]]> By: Pbear http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/2008/09/15/life-as-a-pregnant-lesbian/comment-page-1/#comment-6131 Pbear Sun, 21 Mar 2010 14:48:51 +0000 http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/?p=1343#comment-6131 And then I read the blogs in the Dating category!.. :-p<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('6131','Pbear'); return false;">Reply</a> - <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('6131','Pbear','And then I read the blogs in the Dating category!.. :-p'); return false;">Quote</a></div> And then I read the blogs in the Dating category!.. :-p
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]]> By: Pbear http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/2008/09/15/life-as-a-pregnant-lesbian/comment-page-1/#comment-6130 Pbear Sat, 20 Mar 2010 20:31:23 +0000 http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/?p=1343#comment-6130 This is a great blog, thanks for sharing it, I have been feeling like the only single, pregnant lesbian alive. Four months into the pregnancy now and I am looking forward to motherhood. I would be lying though if I said that I am not still in a little disbelief that its happening! Of course after years of the subject of children with my female partners being probably the most drawn out and politically messed subject for all the reasons that I'm sure you are aware of...just which method do you choose?, which woman will carry, is there money involved, how much? when? and becoming a parent being something I have wanted so dearly but years passing being nowhere near it, I was at the point where I had accepted that it would never happen so this is a bit surreal to me. I became pregnant the old fashioned way and I was in a relationship with the man, it didn't work out, I'm as gay as the day is long and it was a flawed idea that i could be with him but this is still a blessing. I have no clue how a single mum manages to date though, I have thought about the dynamics of it and of course that was the first and last attempt to date a man! in all honesty and as pathetic as it sounds, where dating is concerned I have been telling myself those days are probably over :-( at least for a long time but I hope that I discover that its not that way. Thank lord for easily accessed information!<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('6130','Pbear'); return false;">Reply</a> - <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('6130','Pbear','This is a great blog, thanks for sharing it, I have been feeling like the only single, pregnant lesbian alive. Four months into the pregnancy now and I am looking forward to motherhood. I would be lying though if I said that I am not still in a little disbelief that its happening! Of course after years of the subject of children with my female partners being probably the most drawn out and politically messed subject for all the reasons that I\'m sure you are aware of...just which method do you choose?, which woman will carry, is there money involved, how much? when? and becoming a parent being something I have wanted so dearly but years passing being nowhere near it, I was at the point where I had accepted that it would never happen so this is a bit surreal to me. I became pregnant the old fashioned way and I was in a relationship with the man, it didn\'t work out, I\'m as gay as the day is long and it was a flawed idea that i could be with him but this is still a blessing. I have no clue how a single mum manages to date though, I have thought about the dynamics of it and of course that was the first and last attempt to date a man! in all honesty and as pathetic as it sounds, where dating is concerned I have been telling myself those days are probably over :-( at least for a long time but I hope that I discover that its not that way. Thank lord for easily accessed information!'); return false;">Quote</a></div> This is a great blog, thanks for sharing it, I have been feeling like the only single, pregnant lesbian alive. Four months into the pregnancy now and I am looking forward to motherhood. I would be lying though if I said that I am not still in a little disbelief that its happening! Of course after years of the subject of children with my female partners being probably the most drawn out and politically messed subject for all the reasons that I’m sure you are aware of…just which method do you choose?, which woman will carry, is there money involved, how much? when? and becoming a parent being something I have wanted so dearly but years passing being nowhere near it, I was at the point where I had accepted that it would never happen so this is a bit surreal to me. I became pregnant the old fashioned way and I was in a relationship with the man, it didn’t work out, I’m as gay as the day is long and it was a flawed idea that i could be with him but this is still a blessing. I have no clue how a single mum manages to date though, I have thought about the dynamics of it and of course that was the first and last attempt to date a man! in all honesty and as pathetic as it sounds, where dating is concerned I have been telling myself those days are probably over :-( at least for a long time but I hope that I discover that its not that way. Thank lord for easily accessed information!
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