Comments on: If I’m Over My Ex Then Why Aren’t You? http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/2008/09/16/if-im-over-my-ex-then-why-arent-you/ Wed, 17 Mar 2010 02:44:40 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Jul http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/2008/09/16/if-im-over-my-ex-then-why-arent-you/comment-page-1/#comment-3339 Jul Tue, 16 Sep 2008 22:20:29 +0000 http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/?p=1349#comment-3339 wow...this is scary on a few fronts for me. One is that I think whoever this chick is (asking all the questions) is wicked insecure. I think I could stand her for about 3 seconds. If that. Secondly, though...I don't keep in touch with my exes. Personally, I find it a little disrespectful to be having someone you slept with, continue contact when you are with someone else. Just my thing though. Third...and kind of a weird one...is that I didn't understand the comment that someone could be "different" in bed but you couldn't say if they were "better." To me, I know very clearly when someone blows my mind...and that's clearly "better." If someone sucks in bed, they're not for me. Now that I must seem like a complete jerk (which I'm not...)...I should stop while I'm ahead. This situation seems like a nightmare to me, and the author has my deepest sympathies. Juls last blog post..<a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/Grrlplanet/~3/393120010/" rel="nofollow">Bond-a-rific.</a><div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('3339','Jul'); return false;">Reply</a> - <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('3339','Jul','wow...this is scary on a few fronts for me. One is that I think whoever this chick is (asking all the questions) is wicked insecure. I think I could stand her for about 3 seconds. If that. \r\n\r\nSecondly, though...I don\'t keep in touch with my exes. Personally, I find it a little disrespectful to be having someone you slept with, continue contact when you are with someone else. Just my thing though. \r\n\r\nThird...and kind of a weird one...is that I didn\'t understand the comment that someone could be \"different\" in bed but you couldn\'t say if they were \"better.\" To me, I know very clearly when someone blows my mind...and that\'s clearly \"better.\" If someone sucks in bed, they\'re not for me.\r\n\r\nNow that I must seem like a complete jerk (which I\'m not...)...I should stop while I\'m ahead. This situation seems like a nightmare to me, and the author has my deepest sympathies.\n\nJuls last blog post..<a href=\"http:\/\/feeds.feedburner.com\/~r\/Grrlplanet\/~3\/393120010\/\" rel=\"nofollow\">Bond-a-rific.<\/a>'); return false;">Quote</a></div> wow…this is scary on a few fronts for me. One is that I think whoever this chick is (asking all the questions) is wicked insecure. I think I could stand her for about 3 seconds. If that.

Secondly, though…I don’t keep in touch with my exes. Personally, I find it a little disrespectful to be having someone you slept with, continue contact when you are with someone else. Just my thing though.

Third…and kind of a weird one…is that I didn’t understand the comment that someone could be “different” in bed but you couldn’t say if they were “better.” To me, I know very clearly when someone blows my mind…and that’s clearly “better.” If someone sucks in bed, they’re not for me.

Now that I must seem like a complete jerk (which I’m not…)…I should stop while I’m ahead. This situation seems like a nightmare to me, and the author has my deepest sympathies.

Juls last blog post..Bond-a-rific.

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]]> By: Tina-cious.com http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/2008/09/16/if-im-over-my-ex-then-why-arent-you/comment-page-1/#comment-3338 Tina-cious.com Tue, 16 Sep 2008 18:28:02 +0000 http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/?p=1349#comment-3338 ....I agree with Dharma... Unless of course you're one of those that keeps their (still fresh) ex soooooooooooooo close she knows what color underwear you're wearing. :D Tina-cious.coms last blog post..<a href="http://tina-cious2.blogspot.com/2008/09/damn-those-jeans.html" rel="nofollow">Damn those jeans....</a><div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('3338','Tina-cious.com'); return false;">Reply</a> - <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('3338','Tina-cious.com','....I agree with Dharma...\r\n\r\nUnless of course you\'re one of those that keeps their (still fresh) ex soooooooooooooo close she knows what color underwear you\'re wearing.\r\n\r\n:D\n\nTina-cious.coms last blog post..<a href=\"http:\/\/tina-cious2.blogspot.com\/2008\/09\/damn-those-jeans.html\" rel=\"nofollow\">Damn those jeans....<\/a>'); return false;">Quote</a></div> ….I agree with Dharma…

Unless of course you’re one of those that keeps their (still fresh) ex soooooooooooooo close she knows what color underwear you’re wearing.

:D

Tina-cious.coms last blog post..Damn those jeans….

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]]> By: Dharma Kelleher http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/2008/09/16/if-im-over-my-ex-then-why-arent-you/comment-page-1/#comment-3337 Dharma Kelleher Tue, 16 Sep 2008 18:15:15 +0000 http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/?p=1349#comment-3337 IMO, if your girlfriend is obsessing about your ex, there's a serious codependency issue. Is she can't get over it in short order, kick her to the curb. Harsh? Yes, but it avoids a lot of heartache for everyone later. Clingy and codependent isn't sexy and it doesn't make for a warm, loving relationship.<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('3337','Dharma Kelleher'); return false;">Reply</a> - <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('3337','Dharma Kelleher','IMO, if your girlfriend is obsessing about your ex, there\'s a serious codependency issue. Is she can\'t get over it in short order, kick her to the curb. Harsh? Yes, but it avoids a lot of heartache for everyone later. Clingy and codependent isn\'t sexy and it doesn\'t make for a warm, loving relationship.'); return false;">Quote</a></div> IMO, if your girlfriend is obsessing about your ex, there’s a serious codependency issue. Is she can’t get over it in short order, kick her to the curb. Harsh? Yes, but it avoids a lot of heartache for everyone later. Clingy and codependent isn’t sexy and it doesn’t make for a warm, loving relationship.
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