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Lesbians and Porn?

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Many times lesbian sex is sited as the ideal porn for straight men. And by lesbian sex I mean two rail thin bleach blonde’s with knockers that could suffocate a grown man and his fantasy football team. Sometimes I think that’s why real lesbians are put off by porn. Since I’m well in tune with my inner “boy” (and yes I mean boy with a “Y” and not an “i”) I’ve always been a fan. After typing that I find it odd that I have to attribute my enjoyment of porn to the male side of my brain. What is even more interesting is that as a lesbian I tend to prefer gay porn. You heard me right. I like to watch two men go at it. I always thought I was alone on the matter, but apparently there’s an entire underground world of dykes that get off on dicks. Go figure!

I was recently involved in a conversation with one of my straight female friends who let me in the the fact that her husband enjoys watching gay porn as well. This makes me think that it’s the unknown that turns some of us on. It makes me wonder if those of you who have been with men in your past find nothing at all titillating about gay porn because you are well aware of all the in’s and out’s of the penis. This is all just a theory.

I was recently introduced to hotmoviesforher.com and it has opened up some interesting doors for this dyke. The extent of which was watching a FTM have sex with a MTF. Both of them still had their original bits which made things both interesting and confusing. Though it didn’t turn me on, I did find it interesting where I suppose some may be turned completely off by it. But I think that’s one of the aspects of porn that I love. Everyone has their own personal tastes. From Furrys to BSDM, there seems to be something for everyone.

As for me, I think porn is a good thing. I’m sure there’s a dark side, as there is to most things, but as far as the idea of watching it is concerned I don’t believe it to be the taboo that it used to be. So here’s where I have to ask what gets you off? Do you own porn? Do you watch porn with your girlfriend? Do you find that since most porn is geared towards straight men it’s hard to find something you can identify with? Any suggestions where a girl can find some real lesbian porn.


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Interesting point regarding being turned on by the unknown. I’ve never watched lesbian porn but my straight guy friends ensure that I never miss out on porn in general. I’ve seen all the “sex tapes”…Pamela Anderson, Paris Hilton and company. Paris Hilton’s was hilarious. She could be a lesbian she looked so disinterested in her guy friend. I’m sure I could hear her thinking about shopping.

So in answer to your question, I don’t own porn but I’m not opposed to it. Just not the blonde on top of the copier kind of porn!

by Julie on September 26th, 2008 at 8:53 AM

as you said the fact that lesbian porn is mostly made by heterosexuals and for heterosexual men has turned away lots of lesbians from it. There is no way I can identify with these blond brainless dolls.i have always found gay porn much more exciting because there is some kind of truthfulness in it.
But well one day I discovered queer porn and it definitively reconciled me with porn. I advise you the movie “one night stand”, made by emilie jouvet a french queer photographer. a porn made by a lesbian, with lesbians, for lesbians. awesome.

by althea on September 26th, 2008 at 9:55 AM

For me, porn is akin to window shopping; i.e., looking at something that I can’t have. I’m not offended by it; just not interested.

by Dharma Kelleher on September 26th, 2008 at 10:43 AM

Hey! I am one of the ladies working hard to bring you good lesbian porn over at HM4Her.com. While goldstardyke is right to say everyone’s taste varies, I wanted to suggest a few of my favorite real lesbian studios:

Bleu Productions – Maria Beatty shoots really beautiful films with plenty of hot dyke sex. Strap-On Motel and Ecstasy In Berlin 1926 are my personal favorites

Triangle Films & Sweetheart Video – Both feature long scenes with lots of kissing and foreplay.

Fatale Media – Lots of Classic Lesbian Pornos including Suburban Dykes and Full Load.

Erocktavision – Director Dana Dane and her partner Niki Clover combine porn and rock & roll.

Finally, the San Francisco Lesbians series was one of the first series that focused on real lesbian sex. Butch/Femme dynamics, toys, and lots of hot action. They’re a little dated, but still really good.

Click on the banner above to access the site if you’re interested and let us know if you have questions.

Also, while we sadly don’t have pink and white productions on our site (call us!), they are one of my favorite studios and i suggest checking out http://www.crashpadseries.com/ for hot queer porn.

P.S. I’m a huge fan of gay male porn too. Check out Rascal. They’re amazing.

by The Porn Librarian on September 26th, 2008 at 2:41 PM

I don’t own any porn…is that a bad thing? I’m all for sex and doing what turns you on, it just doesn’t do much for me to watch two strangers go at it. If my girl made a tape for me? A totally different story.

I suppose I’d be more into “home movies” than the kind I could rent.

by Jul on September 26th, 2008 at 7:48 PM

Have you checked out Cyber Dykes (www.cyber-dyke.net)? It’s a membership thing, but I joined for a month and they have some HOT stuff on there. I’d recommend giving it a look. Also Xtube.com for free.

I like straight porn and lesbian porn. Two guys doesn’t really do it for me, unless it’s maybe in a group context.

Interesting topic!!

GG

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by Grumpy Granny on September 26th, 2008 at 11:57 PM

Cyberdyke.net is just one sight out there with “real lesbian” porn — I am sure there may be others.

by janet on September 27th, 2008 at 6:59 AM

I agree that Cyberdyke is pretty hot! I also really like Nina Hartley’s lesbian stuff. She’s bi, but there’s no doubt that she loves women and there’s something about an older woman who knows what she wants.

by The Porn Librarian on September 27th, 2008 at 11:17 AM

I agree with you being turned on by gay guy porno. I think it is the idea of the unknown, some try to tell me it is the inner boi (with an “i) :) letting me know I have penis envy. I am not sure if this is the case and to over analyze what get’s me off is not something that turns me on. To each her own. Cyberdyke is great, but for those of you who are into a “darker realm”, nocturnevideo.com is great. It is like X-tube but for those into the leather, fetish, BDSM aspect of lovin’. X-Tube also has a great bunch of amateur lesbians that make there porn. It is the real deal ladies. No 8 inch heel, 15 inch finger nail, inflatable breast, lick the ladies parts like you’ve been forced gig. These women are in really enjoying one another and it shows. Also try Pink and White Productions. They have the Crash Pad Series. Hot stuff ladies!!

by GirlyBoi on September 30th, 2008 at 12:00 PM

Thanks for all the suggestions! God knows I can’t wait to check them all out. The comments also seems to prove that porn is a matter of personal taste.

by goldstardyke on September 30th, 2008 at 4:17 PM

Well, I am also one of those girls that are trying to help bring good lesbian porn to the world…Dana Dane is a good one thats for sure. Check out http://www.thelesbianfactor.com real girls real porn I just did my first shoot with them a few weeks ago and really liked it. As far as porn goes, honestly the only porn I have ever watched was Live and being made and it was girl girl so IDK about the whole guy guy thing who knows I could be a fan.

Replyhttp://www.thelesbianfactor.com real girls real porn I just did my first shoot with them a few weeks ago and really liked it. As far as porn goes, honestly the only porn I have ever watched was Live and being made and it was girl girl so IDK about the whole guy guy thing who knows I could be a fan.’); return false;”>Quote
by Katt on October 13th, 2008 at 5:06 AM

well…me and a friend watched porn together. It was really bad and really boring–she liked it–cuz there were all these MEN involved, and only one “lesbian” scene. The women weren’t even real lesbians–I hate that so much! It’s so much better to see the real thing…
And I like to read more anyways. :3 Probly because I still live with my parents, but whatev. xD

by Tabby on October 14th, 2008 at 12:55 AM

Hello, there’s been a high quality porn company making top shelf queer dyke porno since 2006 that ya’ll should definitely get to know a little better:
Pink & White Productions, directed by Shine Louise Houston:

Films:
The Crash Pad – 2006 Best Dyke Sex Scene
Superfreak – 2007 Best Dyke Sex Film
In Search of the Wild Kingdom – Best Trans Sex Film
Crash Pad Series Vol. 1 – Best Dyke Sex Film
Champion (due Jan 2009)[hot explicit amateur fighter dyke love story]

AND, as if that’s not enough: going membership site http://crashpadseries.com

You may thank me now, or later. ; )

p.s. NOFAUXXX.com still doing queer photo shoots and S.I.R. Productions is back in the game soon. Also Bondage IT Girl Madison Young’s new relationship with Abigail Productions is sure to be a hit. Who said there’s nothing out there for real dyke/queer sex? This is 2008, loves.

by Jiz Lee on October 20th, 2008 at 2:31 AM

I love porn. Good porn. Porn with a story. I watched some lesbian porn by lesbians I rented from Good Vibrations in Berkeley a few months ago and it seemed like an exercise in trying all the positions in the Book of Sapphistry. Yawn.

Part of what makes us women is our love of the build up…the storyline. And, some good acting for goshsakes. The romance followed by multiple bouts of hot sex of whatever our particular flavor.

That’s what I want in porn – and I the producer of such porn succeeds where others have failed and sends me some so I can finally rave about it – publicly.

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by Lori on November 24th, 2008 at 2:07 AM

I’m poor, so I surf the Redtube *cry*

I (like you) have viewed and enjoyed some gay porn. (Quite limited but I am not a gay porn virgin) As for lesbian porn, the kind you described with the large breasted professionals – I’m in that boat of chicks for whom endless moaning and mechanical motions does nothing. If the actresses spend more time looking AT the camera and not at EACH OTHER. Then it was made for men and not women and therefore, I’ll pass.

BUT AMATURE lesbians, or even professional woman that – through uncontainable and unabashed joy – convey true enjoyment! (with a hint of emotional intimacy) For that I am a sucker. To watch a woman who clearly is enjoying a heartfelt and a well earned orgasm generated by the hard work of her partner is a definite turn on for me. And – IF I can get it – a good story goes a long way too. The sexiest part of my body (my brain) appreciates that kind of porn that much more.

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by Rockets on March 1st, 2009 at 2:00 AM

I’m not lesbian myself but consider myself bi. Anyway my take on this is that people should really relax more on this topic. Seems lot of lesbians like to say that regular lesbian porn sucks because they don’t like men and it is made for men.

If you want feelings and what not then watch a romantic movie, if you want more realistic scenes then watch amateur lesbian porn. But I don’t mind classical lesbian porn either. I must admit that it is actually really hot and well made. It is like art and it isn’t meant to be liked by everybody.

Stella

by Stella on November 23rd, 2009 at 9:34 PM

I am looking for some good lesbian porn for me and my girl to watch. she is bi, and very picky about the porn she watches. I’m looking for actual pornos not just websites. Can any of you help me out and suggest some good ones?

thank you

D

by hvywt285 on December 6th, 2009 at 11:53 AM

Well, I’m transsexual lesbian and I must say gay men porn does nothing for me. I just wonder, if it’s because I have “male sexuality” after all, or those lesbians who like it are really bisexual at some level, and there’s some women (6 on Kinsey scale), who, just like me, feels nothing when they see sex of two guys?

by misoretu on December 6th, 2009 at 6:22 PM

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