Comments on: TLL Q&A Advice Panelist Installment #10 http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/2008/10/07/tll-qa-advice-panelist-installment-10/ Sun, 06 Nov 2011 06:14:01 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: tongue-tied http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/2008/10/07/tll-qa-advice-panelist-installment-10/comment-page-1/#comment-3448 tongue-tied Sat, 11 Oct 2008 01:28:22 +0000 http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/?p=1444#comment-3448 i'm with Tina (and the rest, too) The Ex? your gf has a right to be first when it comes to other women has a right to let you know what makes her feel safe with you and you have a right to decide if her needs are reasonable agree and adapt or disagree & go The Kids? you have every right to let the gf know that YOU need to come first with her at least sometimes esp. on date nights, etc. she can control the calling behavior with her response as for sex & kids hearing get creative! they won't be around forever good communication counseling is a wondrous thing!<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('3448','tongue-tied'); return false;">Reply</a> - <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('3448','tongue-tied','i\'m with Tina\r\n(and the rest, too)\r\n\r\nThe Ex? your gf has a right to be first \r\nwhen it comes to other women\r\nhas a right to let you know what makes her feel safe with you\r\nand you have a right to decide if her needs are reasonable\r\nagree and adapt\r\nor disagree & go\r\n\r\nThe Kids? you have every right\r\nto let the gf know that YOU need to come first with her\r\nat least sometimes\r\nesp. on date nights, etc.\r\nshe can control the calling behavior with her response\r\n\r\nas for sex & kids hearing\r\nget creative!\r\nthey won\'t be around forever\r\n\r\ngood communication counseling is a wondrous thing!'); return false;">Quote</a></div> i’m with Tina
(and the rest, too)

The Ex? your gf has a right to be first
when it comes to other women
has a right to let you know what makes her feel safe with you
and you have a right to decide if her needs are reasonable
agree and adapt
or disagree & go

The Kids? you have every right
to let the gf know that YOU need to come first with her
at least sometimes
esp. on date nights, etc.
she can control the calling behavior with her response

as for sex & kids hearing
get creative!
they won’t be around forever

good communication counseling is a wondrous thing!

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