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	<title>Comments on: TLL Q&amp;A Advice Panel Installment #13</title>
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		<title>By: I Have a Thought</title>
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		<dc:creator>I Have a Thought</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Nov 2008 21:00:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jen.... WHOA NELLY!!!!! I think all of the signs are being given to you and your dearest &quot;38 year old girlfriend of 2 years&quot; is trying to let you down easy. If you&#039;ve ever done the breaking up then you know how hard it is to do. Especially if you care for the other person and don&#039;t want them hurt. It would be just easier to be a complete bitch to them and have them leave you. This way you&#039;re not the &quot;bad guy&quot; and you get exactly what you want. 
It would appear to me and I&#039;m sure all who read this that your Not-So-Girlfriend is doing just this. Tell her you are doing her a favor and end it quickly. I doubt she is doing it maliciously but simply trying to get you to break it off.&lt;div class=&quot;comment-remix-meta&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;replyto&quot; onclick=&quot;replyto(&#039;3782&#039;,&#039;I Have a Thought&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Reply&lt;/a&gt;  - &lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;quote&quot; onclick=&quot;quote(&#039;3782&#039;,&#039;I Have a Thought&#039;,&#039;Jen.... WHOA NELLY!!!!! I think all of the signs are being given to you and your dearest \&quot;38 year old girlfriend of 2 years\&quot; is trying to let you down easy. If you\&#039;ve ever done the breaking up then you know how hard it is to do. Especially if you care for the other person and don\&#039;t want them hurt. It would be just easier to be a complete bitch to them and have them leave you. This way you\&#039;re not the \&quot;bad guy\&quot; and you get exactly what you want. \r\nIt would appear to me and I\&#039;m sure all who read this that your Not-So-Girlfriend is doing just this. Tell her you are doing her a favor and end it quickly. I doubt she is doing it maliciously but simply trying to get you to break it off.&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Quote&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jen&#8230;. WHOA NELLY!!!!! I think all of the signs are being given to you and your dearest &#8220;38 year old girlfriend of 2 years&#8221; is trying to let you down easy. If you&#8217;ve ever done the breaking up then you know how hard it is to do. Especially if you care for the other person and don&#8217;t want them hurt. It would be just easier to be a complete bitch to them and have them leave you. This way you&#8217;re not the &#8220;bad guy&#8221; and you get exactly what you want.<br />
It would appear to me and I&#8217;m sure all who read this that your Not-So-Girlfriend is doing just this. Tell her you are doing her a favor and end it quickly. I doubt she is doing it maliciously but simply trying to get you to break it off.
<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('3782','I Have a Thought'); return false;">Reply</a>  &#8211; <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('3782','I Have a Thought','Jen.... WHOA NELLY!!!!! I think all of the signs are being given to you and your dearest \&quot;38 year old girlfriend of 2 years\&quot; is trying to let you down easy. If you\'ve ever done the breaking up then you know how hard it is to do. Especially if you care for the other person and don\'t want them hurt. It would be just easier to be a complete bitch to them and have them leave you. This way you\'re not the \&quot;bad guy\&quot; and you get exactly what you want. \r\nIt would appear to me and I\'m sure all who read this that your Not-So-Girlfriend is doing just this. Tell her you are doing her a favor and end it quickly. I doubt she is doing it maliciously but simply trying to get you to break it off.'); return false;">Quote</a></div>
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		<title>By: witchypoo</title>
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		<dc:creator>witchypoo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Nov 2008 14:01:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Long distance relationships take so much care to nurture. Sounds like your loved one is living in fear. Not the best prognosis.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;witchypoo´s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://psychicgeek.com/skinny-bitch-gets-dumped/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Skinny Bitch Gets Dumped&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;comment-remix-meta&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;replyto&quot; onclick=&quot;replyto(&#039;3777&#039;,&#039;witchypoo&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Reply&lt;/a&gt;  - &lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;quote&quot; onclick=&quot;quote(&#039;3777&#039;,&#039;witchypoo&#039;,&#039;Long distance relationships take so much care to nurture. Sounds like your loved one is living in fear. Not the best prognosis.\n\n&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;witchypoo&#194;&#180;s last blog post..&lt;a href=\&quot;http:\/\/psychicgeek.com\/skinny-bitch-gets-dumped\/\&quot; rel=\&quot;nofollow\&quot;&gt;Skinny Bitch Gets Dumped&lt;\/a&gt;&lt;\/em&gt;&lt;\/abbr&gt;&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Quote&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Long distance relationships take so much care to nurture. Sounds like your loved one is living in fear. Not the best prognosis.</p>
<p><abbr><em>witchypoo´s last blog post..<a href="http://psychicgeek.com/skinny-bitch-gets-dumped/" rel="nofollow">Skinny Bitch Gets Dumped</a></em></abbr>
<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('3777','witchypoo'); return false;">Reply</a>  &#8211; <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('3777','witchypoo','Long distance relationships take so much care to nurture. Sounds like your loved one is living in fear. Not the best prognosis.\n\n&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;witchypoo&Acirc;&acute;s last blog post..&lt;a href=\&quot;http:\/\/psychicgeek.com\/skinny-bitch-gets-dumped\/\&quot; rel=\&quot;nofollow\&quot;&gt;Skinny Bitch Gets Dumped&lt;\/a&gt;&lt;\/em&gt;&lt;\/abbr&gt;'); return false;">Quote</a></div>
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