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		<title>By: honey</title>
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		<dc:creator>honey</dc:creator>
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		<description>In a lot of ways, I agree with Tina. When you&#039;re in a monogamous relationship, you&#039;ve made an agreement with your self and your partner to stay committed to each other, and if you&#039;re really into it, you won&#039;t want to explore other things. When you&#039;ve got it good, you don&#039;t really do anything to mess it up (usually). 

If you have a true partnership with your girlfriend, then working through crushes and attraction to other people is an opportunity for you to grow in your relationship. I see it as you have two choices. Either you break up with your girlfriend and pursue your other attractions, or you stop messing around and share your weaknesses with your significant other.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;honey´s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/koencidence/~3/463511857/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Apples 2 Apples&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;comment-remix-meta&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;replyto&quot; onclick=&quot;replyto(&#039;3885&#039;,&#039;honey&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Reply&lt;/a&gt;  - &lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;quote&quot; onclick=&quot;quote(&#039;3885&#039;,&#039;honey&#039;,&#039;In a lot of ways, I agree with Tina. When you\&#039;re in a monogamous relationship, you\&#039;ve made an agreement with your self and your partner to stay committed to each other, and if you\&#039;re really into it, you won\&#039;t want to explore other things. When you\&#039;ve got it good, you don\&#039;t really do anything to mess it up (usually). \r\n\r\nIf you have a true partnership with your girlfriend, then working through crushes and attraction to other people is an opportunity for you to grow in your relationship. I see it as you have two choices. Either you break up with your girlfriend and pursue your other attractions, or you stop messing around and share your weaknesses with your significant other.\n\n&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;honey&#194;&#180;s last blog post..&lt;a href=\&quot;http:\/\/feeds.feedburner.com\/~r\/koencidence\/~3\/463511857\/\&quot; rel=\&quot;nofollow\&quot;&gt;Apples 2 Apples&lt;\/a&gt;&lt;\/em&gt;&lt;\/abbr&gt;&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Quote&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In a lot of ways, I agree with Tina. When you&#8217;re in a monogamous relationship, you&#8217;ve made an agreement with your self and your partner to stay committed to each other, and if you&#8217;re really into it, you won&#8217;t want to explore other things. When you&#8217;ve got it good, you don&#8217;t really do anything to mess it up (usually). </p>
<p>If you have a true partnership with your girlfriend, then working through crushes and attraction to other people is an opportunity for you to grow in your relationship. I see it as you have two choices. Either you break up with your girlfriend and pursue your other attractions, or you stop messing around and share your weaknesses with your significant other.</p>
<p><abbr><em>honey´s last blog post..<a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/koencidence/~3/463511857/" rel="nofollow">Apples 2 Apples</a></em></abbr>
<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('3885','honey'); return false;">Reply</a>  &#8211; <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('3885','honey','In a lot of ways, I agree with Tina. When you\'re in a monogamous relationship, you\'ve made an agreement with your self and your partner to stay committed to each other, and if you\'re really into it, you won\'t want to explore other things. When you\'ve got it good, you don\'t really do anything to mess it up (usually). \r\n\r\nIf you have a true partnership with your girlfriend, then working through crushes and attraction to other people is an opportunity for you to grow in your relationship. I see it as you have two choices. Either you break up with your girlfriend and pursue your other attractions, or you stop messing around and share your weaknesses with your significant other.\n\n&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;honey&Acirc;&acute;s last blog post..&lt;a href=\&quot;http:\/\/feeds.feedburner.com\/~r\/koencidence\/~3\/463511857\/\&quot; rel=\&quot;nofollow\&quot;&gt;Apples 2 Apples&lt;\/a&gt;&lt;\/em&gt;&lt;\/abbr&gt;'); return false;">Quote</a></div>
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