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The Doggy Style Strap doesn’t look like much, but what a difference it makes! This is a padded strap with adjustable handles for use with doggy style penetrative sex. This is by the same folks who made the Under The Bed Restraints that I reviewed a while back, both of which are readily available from the nice folks at Vibe Review.

I love doggy style sex. I always have, and with the Doggy Style Strap, I daresay I always will. The problem I’ve encountered in the past is that the thrusting tends to move the  penetrated partner forwards and away from the thruster, so that the thruster’s gotta lean awkwardly to keep at it. Neither partner is enjoying it very much at this point, because the angle is all wrong.

Enter Doggy Style Strap. It’s simple to use. Get on your hands and knees as usual, and your partner stands behind you as usual, penetrates you in doggy style manner as usual, only this time your partner utilizes the handy Doggy Style Strap by placing the center pad beneath your belly/lower abdomen and taking hold of the straps. The written insert states that part of the purpose is so to reduce embarrassment becaus your partner doesn’t have to grab your love handles. I was partly offended that this was something the manufacturers planned as part of the purpose, and also glad for the existence of the thing, because to be perfectly honest, it is a bit awkward to be grabbed that way when you’re trying to let your body hang ups go and just enjoy a good time. On this note, it’s important to mention that this works well for small gals and just as well for big gals.

Things I like about the Doggy Style Strap

• There’s a kinky aspect to it. Using it when you’re the recipient, it feels almost like you can’t escape, which I like a lot. For this reason, I understand why it’s tucked into the bondage category.
• It eases strain and exertion for both partners, and allows you to share the work more evenly. Read: this strap is the ideal toy for lazy fuckers. Sorry, I just wanted to fit “lazy fuckers” into the sentence.
• Using the strap keeps you in a much better position for hitting the g-spot. Why? Well, the strap is pulling up against your lower abdomen and “compressing your vaginal canal” according to them, which is good. It’s very good.   It gives an increased feeling of fullness, and having the strap allows for more complete control over the angle and positioning of the involved bodies, making it a lot easier to aim for the g-spot.
• The pamphlet offers suggestions of other ways to use this, such as for missionary position (which isn’t something I do). They suggest putting the strap around the bum of the penetrative partner to aid in thrusting. I think this could have some other applications. For example, if the penetrated partner is on top they could have the strap positioned around their back for the penetrating partner to help out with the movement/bouncing/grinding action.

I don’t have anything negative to say about the strap. It is what it is. It’s good for doggy style, and with a little applied sexual creativity, it can be good for some other things too. If you like doggy style and just want it to feel better, it would be worth the small investment in this strap. Because it’s made by Sportsheets, it’ll last forever, and it’ll be helping you do it like they do on the discovery channel well into your old age.