2009
Where are all the Lez girls?
My girlfriend and I just recently moved to Milwaukee to be together. Before coming to Milwaukee we were in a long distance relationship. I was excited about moving to a new place, having people know my girlfriend and I as being together, and not having to worry about coming out. I was excited about finding a group of friends who I could feel comfortable with, and be myself with; preferably women who were gay or bisexual. Since moving here in August my girlfriend and I have had a hard time meeting people. We have been to the local lesbian hotspots such as bars, or coffee shops. We have also volunteered at the LGBT Community Center, and attending parties and outing organized by the Center. At first we were very excited to volunteer, and meet some cool new people. Our volunteer experience turned out to just be volunteering at the front desk, at night, with each other. Don’t get me wrong, this was pretty good, but we did not get to meet many other people. We just said hello and the few people coming and going. We also attending a large fundraiser called Big Night Out. We were hoping to get to know some members of the LGBT community at this fundraiser. However, it was mainly older men and women, who are pretty settled, which don’t get me wrong was great, however not what we were looking for. I don’t know what else to do. I have not found very many events or community organizations that women around my age (25) attend. How else can I meet people? I would love to hear some suggestions, and/or from other people who may live in the Milwaukee area. I miss having a great group of friends….I think it would make the whole experience of living in Milwaukee much better. Thanks for reading! I look forward to hearing back from some people!
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Hi, have you checked to see if the LGBT center has any kind of email groups? The one in Colorado Springs has several, one of which is called the Womyn’s Social Network or WSN. They do monthly dinners, coffee outings, hikes, game nights, etc. It’s a Yahoo! group that one can join. Also, doesn’t Milwaukee have colleges? I’d check out what’s happening at the college centers, etc. The women may be younger, but perhaps more in the same demographic than the “settled” couples you are meeting/have met. Also check out the bulletin boards in coffee shops and bookstores—you never know who you might meet at that yoga class!!
Good luck!
GG
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