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Now; i’m pretty Young- Age isn’t necessary though, but the girl who takes great part in this story; she’s 19 years old. Usually i dont do this but i’ve had it up to here and i wanted to see if someone could tell me who they think is at fault, or if i can get a little help here. Here’s the thing– I’ve been just “talking” to this girl who is 19 a couple years older then me, not too much tho. We’ve been talking for about 7months; i’m more of the femm in the relationship only because of how i dress because she has her femm-ish ways. we have so much in common- and i think i could fall deep for this girl.

3 months into talking we took it to the next level and “Did things” i didn’t think much of it; because like i said i was really into this girl and it seemed like she was REALLY into me as well; she showed me off and everything like i was her girl, but i wasn’t. Things started to change and i noticed it- but i thought maybe it’s because shes busy with school since shes a full time student and works too. i left it at that, but things were not getting better; until i realized there was another female in the picture. She reconnected with her “first love” from when she was way younger. it killed me, i will admit it really did. I told her off only because of how it was all done; she didn’t tell me nothing about her new love and she posted this new female everywhere out of no where. So it killed and i cried every night, no exaggeration for about 1 month. All the trust and love i had for that girl she blew it away, we stopped talking and i’ll admit i missed her. I thought about her everyday.

After a while she hit me up, after so long, i was shocked and didnt know what to do. I answered her but kept it as neutral as i could. We exchanged some words and decided to talk again, as friends because her and that other chick started going out. I accepted because i really was feeling her and i wanted to be able to at least talk to her. We argued like crazy through out the time period though, and every time i was upset she came to my rescue and did everything for me not to be upset with her even though she was still this other chick.

She wanted to chill so i asked her to the movies, on her and her girlfriend one month Anniversary- and we went, had the bestest time ever until it was time to watch the movie. Couples we’re watching the movie doing as couples do and i felt left out =/ i had gotten upset because she told me so many things threw text message on how we were going to have fun at the movies and what not, You know things that would lead a person on. So i expect much more; and nothing happened– i asked her what was going on and she said she’s not one to cheat on her girl. i got mad and said then why do you keep leading me on and she got upset at me, stating i make everything ever so complicated. but really? come’on who wouldn’t be upset? i
left that at that too and moved on.

She made up again and now at this point things started to elevate– she started calling me babe and telling me she loved me, and i’ll admit it felt real good although she was Still with her girlfriend. i asked her several times, what kind of relationship do we have? and she would always try to dodge the question or get mad whenever i asked. Her best friend- Had a crush on me, me being the flirt i am though flirted back. But never did i kiss her or go beyond that, she found out about it and boom everything went down the drain– we started going down hill again. i tried to fix things although i’m single i could do as i please i wanted to show her it was her who had my heart and i dropped everyone i was flirting with. She was still upset with me though, but i stood by her side, even when her and her girlfriend broke up. i was there for her; although she still mourned for her ex. she continued to push away from me though and all went real down hill; when my ex kissed me– and the next day it got back to her, she asked me if it was true and i said yea. i didn’t lie she was heated- and asked why i didnt tell her, i said because i dont know what kind of relationship we have, i dont know if you’d care. She left it at that and drove away.

I called her and she didn’t want much to do with me, i let her cool down and i went on her myspace and she had her icon saying she’s in love and pictures of her and her Ex were up again and she stated how she loved her Ex. i was EXTREMELY hurt–x a couple days later she texted me sayin how am i and things like that, i kept it short; only gave her 2 word responses and lost interest in wanting to text her because i was so hurt. i still care about her, and shes all i think about– but i im so confused, part of me wants to drop her dead and part wants to just talk to her. can someone please let me know how they feel about the whole thing?– and some advice would be grateful. . .Please =/ ____xAyooPsycho Hit me up on myspace if Anything.