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		<title>By: unkown</title>
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		<dc:creator>unkown</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 May 2010 10:04:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Love hurts. your chick is playing games.  You are there when she needs you.  She wants you but not really; yet she wants no one else to have you.  You are single, go for who you want.  Going for her friend is not wrong but some people may see it as messed up.  your first real love sticks with you always but the break up makes you stronger.  

Time will heal you; cry, be sad, but remember someone will want you as much as you want them with ought the crazy games

I found my &quot;soul mate&quot;  unfortunately she was no good for me.  She played mind games.  When I broke it off we continued to live together, she kept telling me she will be a better person and we should work things out.  We both finally got girlfriends and we moved on.  I thought we had anyway, she is still in my heart and like you, I cried over her a lot.  To get over her I had to not see her for 7 months.  She is in my life now as a friend because I grew a connection with her family and her nieces see me as their aunt.  

 Yes I will always love my &quot;soul mate&quot; but I&#039;m healed and not sexually attracted to her. She was never good for me, but when she finds a new GF (which I am fine with) I still am protective over her; meaning I get upset if someone hits her or hurts her. 

Leave your chick alone.  If she comes to you, tell her what it is exactly you want from her.  If she can&#039;t do it then let her go completely.  Although you should just walk away before then, I know what it is like.  Just remember that if you two start a relationship, you need to trust her and she needs to be honest.  If not, it won&#039;t last and you will go through the same heart ache&lt;div class=&quot;comment-remix-meta&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;replyto&quot; onclick=&quot;replyto(&#039;6380&#039;,&#039;unkown&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Reply&lt;/a&gt;  - &lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;quote&quot; onclick=&quot;quote(&#039;6380&#039;,&#039;unkown&#039;,&#039;Love hurts. your chick is playing games.  You are there when she needs you.  She wants you but not really; yet she wants no one else to have you.  You are single, go for who you want.  Going for her friend is not wrong but some people may see it as messed up.  your first real love sticks with you always but the break up makes you stronger.  \r\n\r\nTime will heal you; cry, be sad, but remember someone will want you as much as you want them with ought the crazy games\r\n\r\nI found my \&quot;soul mate\&quot;  unfortunately she was no good for me.  She played mind games.  When I broke it off we continued to live together, she kept telling me she will be a better person and we should work things out.  We both finally got girlfriends and we moved on.  I thought we had anyway, she is still in my heart and like you, I cried over her a lot.  To get over her I had to not see her for 7 months.  She is in my life now as a friend because I grew a connection with her family and her nieces see me as their aunt.  \r\n\r\n Yes I will always love my \&quot;soul mate\&quot; but I\&#039;m healed and not sexually attracted to her. She was never good for me, but when she finds a new GF (which I am fine with) I still am protective over her; meaning I get upset if someone hits her or hurts her. \r\n\r\nLeave your chick alone.  If she comes to you, tell her what it is exactly you want from her.  If she can\&#039;t do it then let her go completely.  Although you should just walk away before then, I know what it is like.  Just remember that if you two start a relationship, you need to trust her and she needs to be honest.  If not, it won\&#039;t last and you will go through the same heart ache&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Quote&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Love hurts. your chick is playing games.  You are there when she needs you.  She wants you but not really; yet she wants no one else to have you.  You are single, go for who you want.  Going for her friend is not wrong but some people may see it as messed up.  your first real love sticks with you always but the break up makes you stronger.  </p>
<p>Time will heal you; cry, be sad, but remember someone will want you as much as you want them with ought the crazy games</p>
<p>I found my &#8220;soul mate&#8221;  unfortunately she was no good for me.  She played mind games.  When I broke it off we continued to live together, she kept telling me she will be a better person and we should work things out.  We both finally got girlfriends and we moved on.  I thought we had anyway, she is still in my heart and like you, I cried over her a lot.  To get over her I had to not see her for 7 months.  She is in my life now as a friend because I grew a connection with her family and her nieces see me as their aunt.  </p>
<p> Yes I will always love my &#8220;soul mate&#8221; but I&#8217;m healed and not sexually attracted to her. She was never good for me, but when she finds a new GF (which I am fine with) I still am protective over her; meaning I get upset if someone hits her or hurts her. </p>
<p>Leave your chick alone.  If she comes to you, tell her what it is exactly you want from her.  If she can&#8217;t do it then let her go completely.  Although you should just walk away before then, I know what it is like.  Just remember that if you two start a relationship, you need to trust her and she needs to be honest.  If not, it won&#8217;t last and you will go through the same heart ache
<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('6380','unkown'); return false;">Reply</a>  &#8211; <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('6380','unkown','Love hurts. your chick is playing games.  You are there when she needs you.  She wants you but not really; yet she wants no one else to have you.  You are single, go for who you want.  Going for her friend is not wrong but some people may see it as messed up.  your first real love sticks with you always but the break up makes you stronger.  \r\n\r\nTime will heal you; cry, be sad, but remember someone will want you as much as you want them with ought the crazy games\r\n\r\nI found my \&quot;soul mate\&quot;  unfortunately she was no good for me.  She played mind games.  When I broke it off we continued to live together, she kept telling me she will be a better person and we should work things out.  We both finally got girlfriends and we moved on.  I thought we had anyway, she is still in my heart and like you, I cried over her a lot.  To get over her I had to not see her for 7 months.  She is in my life now as a friend because I grew a connection with her family and her nieces see me as their aunt.  \r\n\r\n Yes I will always love my \&quot;soul mate\&quot; but I\'m healed and not sexually attracted to her. She was never good for me, but when she finds a new GF (which I am fine with) I still am protective over her; meaning I get upset if someone hits her or hurts her. \r\n\r\nLeave your chick alone.  If she comes to you, tell her what it is exactly you want from her.  If she can\'t do it then let her go completely.  Although you should just walk away before then, I know what it is like.  Just remember that if you two start a relationship, you need to trust her and she needs to be honest.  If not, it won\'t last and you will go through the same heart ache'); return false;">Quote</a></div>
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		<title>By: Steadycat</title>
		<link>http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/2009/04/08/ive-got-a-story-to-tell/comment-page-1/#comment-4839</link>
		<dc:creator>Steadycat</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Apr 2009 19:03:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think you need to let her go.  If not, you need to admit that you will take her no matter what she does to you.  It looks like she is never honest with the one she is actually with.  Experience will teach you that she has red flags waving all around her.  If you don&#039;t want to get burned, step away from the girl with the red flags.&lt;div class=&quot;comment-remix-meta&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;replyto&quot; onclick=&quot;replyto(&#039;4839&#039;,&#039;Steadycat&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Reply&lt;/a&gt;  - &lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;quote&quot; onclick=&quot;quote(&#039;4839&#039;,&#039;Steadycat&#039;,&#039;I think you need to let her go.  If not, you need to admit that you will take her no matter what she does to you.  It looks like she is never honest with the one she is actually with.  Experience will teach you that she has red flags waving all around her.  If you don\&#039;t want to get burned, step away from the girl with the red flags.&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Quote&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think you need to let her go.  If not, you need to admit that you will take her no matter what she does to you.  It looks like she is never honest with the one she is actually with.  Experience will teach you that she has red flags waving all around her.  If you don&#8217;t want to get burned, step away from the girl with the red flags.
<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('4839','Steadycat'); return false;">Reply</a>  &#8211; <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('4839','Steadycat','I think you need to let her go.  If not, you need to admit that you will take her no matter what she does to you.  It looks like she is never honest with the one she is actually with.  Experience will teach you that she has red flags waving all around her.  If you don\'t want to get burned, step away from the girl with the red flags.'); return false;">Quote</a></div>
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		<title>By: loverbunny</title>
		<link>http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/2009/04/08/ive-got-a-story-to-tell/comment-page-1/#comment-4838</link>
		<dc:creator>loverbunny</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Apr 2009 14:10:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sounds like this girl wants to have her cake and eat it too. She wants you when it is convenient for her. She doesn&#039;t want you, but she doesn&#039;t want anyone else to have you either. I know it&#039;s hard to let go...but I think you&#039;ll be better off in the long run.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;loverbunny´s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://crazybitchinc.blogspot.com/2008/10/i-want-to-fuck-you-like-animal.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;I want to fuck you like an animal...&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;comment-remix-meta&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;replyto&quot; onclick=&quot;replyto(&#039;4838&#039;,&#039;loverbunny&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Reply&lt;/a&gt;  - &lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;quote&quot; onclick=&quot;quote(&#039;4838&#039;,&#039;loverbunny&#039;,&#039;Sounds like this girl wants to have her cake and eat it too. She wants you when it is convenient for her. She doesn\&#039;t want you, but she doesn\&#039;t want anyone else to have you either. I know it\&#039;s hard to let go...but I think you\&#039;ll be better off in the long run.\n\n&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;loverbunny&#194;&#180;s last blog post..&lt;a href=\&quot;http:\/\/crazybitchinc.blogspot.com\/2008\/10\/i-want-to-fuck-you-like-animal.html\&quot; rel=\&quot;nofollow\&quot;&gt;I want to fuck you like an animal...&lt;\/a&gt;&lt;\/em&gt;&lt;\/abbr&gt;&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Quote&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sounds like this girl wants to have her cake and eat it too. She wants you when it is convenient for her. She doesn&#8217;t want you, but she doesn&#8217;t want anyone else to have you either. I know it&#8217;s hard to let go&#8230;but I think you&#8217;ll be better off in the long run.</p>
<p><abbr><em>loverbunny´s last blog post..<a href="http://crazybitchinc.blogspot.com/2008/10/i-want-to-fuck-you-like-animal.html" rel="nofollow">I want to fuck you like an animal&#8230;</a></em></abbr>
<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('4838','loverbunny'); return false;">Reply</a>  &#8211; <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('4838','loverbunny','Sounds like this girl wants to have her cake and eat it too. She wants you when it is convenient for her. She doesn\'t want you, but she doesn\'t want anyone else to have you either. I know it\'s hard to let go...but I think you\'ll be better off in the long run.\n\n&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;loverbunny&Acirc;&acute;s last blog post..&lt;a href=\&quot;http:\/\/crazybitchinc.blogspot.com\/2008\/10\/i-want-to-fuck-you-like-animal.html\&quot; rel=\&quot;nofollow\&quot;&gt;I want to fuck you like an animal...&lt;\/a&gt;&lt;\/em&gt;&lt;\/abbr&gt;'); return false;">Quote</a></div>
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		<title>By: James</title>
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		<dc:creator>James</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Apr 2009 16:37:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well, everyone knows how it feels to be in love. Life is full of purpose, energetic, everyday we wake up there are plenty of reasons to be happy, everything taste better, looks better and feels better. That&#039;s the power of love. Big deal....
All because the love that you are holding but remember, if things turn out the other way so does your life. I do learned this by hard. When love is corrupted or you might wanna think of it as expired, it no longer serve you anymore. Holding to it can be like hell. You might wanna try to let it go. I did. 
If you try to be conscious and remember, what is the feeling you have the last 10 times you think of her. I&#039;m sure everything relate to depression, betrayal, or u know it urself. Ask urself do you still want it anymore? If you think its worth the pain.. then keep it. Its really all about your emotion and your conscious mind. You might have told yourself many times that you should leave her but your emotion just doesn&#039;t allow. 
Things will flow through.. dun worry. If its too painful, your conscious mind will jump in and make all the decision.

Hope this will help !! Thanks. Nice to meet you. Anyway, i&#039;m straight.&lt;div class=&quot;comment-remix-meta&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;replyto&quot; onclick=&quot;replyto(&#039;4836&#039;,&#039;James&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Reply&lt;/a&gt;  - &lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;quote&quot; onclick=&quot;quote(&#039;4836&#039;,&#039;James&#039;,&#039;Well, everyone knows how it feels to be in love. Life is full of purpose, energetic, everyday we wake up there are plenty of reasons to be happy, everything taste better, looks better and feels better. That\&#039;s the power of love. Big deal....\r\nAll because the love that you are holding but remember, if things turn out the other way so does your life. I do learned this by hard. When love is corrupted or you might wanna think of it as expired, it no longer serve you anymore. Holding to it can be like hell. You might wanna try to let it go. I did. \r\nIf you try to be conscious and remember, what is the feeling you have the last 10 times you think of her. I\&#039;m sure everything relate to depression, betrayal, or u know it urself. Ask urself do you still want it anymore? If you think its worth the pain.. then keep it. Its really all about your emotion and your conscious mind. You might have told yourself many times that you should leave her but your emotion just doesn\&#039;t allow. \r\nThings will flow through.. dun worry. If its too painful, your conscious mind will jump in and make all the decision.\r\n\r\nHope this will help !! Thanks. Nice to meet you. Anyway, i\&#039;m straight.&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Quote&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well, everyone knows how it feels to be in love. Life is full of purpose, energetic, everyday we wake up there are plenty of reasons to be happy, everything taste better, looks better and feels better. That&#8217;s the power of love. Big deal&#8230;.<br />
All because the love that you are holding but remember, if things turn out the other way so does your life. I do learned this by hard. When love is corrupted or you might wanna think of it as expired, it no longer serve you anymore. Holding to it can be like hell. You might wanna try to let it go. I did.<br />
If you try to be conscious and remember, what is the feeling you have the last 10 times you think of her. I&#8217;m sure everything relate to depression, betrayal, or u know it urself. Ask urself do you still want it anymore? If you think its worth the pain.. then keep it. Its really all about your emotion and your conscious mind. You might have told yourself many times that you should leave her but your emotion just doesn&#8217;t allow.<br />
Things will flow through.. dun worry. If its too painful, your conscious mind will jump in and make all the decision.</p>
<p>Hope this will help !! Thanks. Nice to meet you. Anyway, i&#8217;m straight.
<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('4836','James'); return false;">Reply</a>  &#8211; <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('4836','James','Well, everyone knows how it feels to be in love. Life is full of purpose, energetic, everyday we wake up there are plenty of reasons to be happy, everything taste better, looks better and feels better. That\'s the power of love. Big deal....\r\nAll because the love that you are holding but remember, if things turn out the other way so does your life. I do learned this by hard. When love is corrupted or you might wanna think of it as expired, it no longer serve you anymore. Holding to it can be like hell. You might wanna try to let it go. I did. \r\nIf you try to be conscious and remember, what is the feeling you have the last 10 times you think of her. I\'m sure everything relate to depression, betrayal, or u know it urself. Ask urself do you still want it anymore? If you think its worth the pain.. then keep it. Its really all about your emotion and your conscious mind. You might have told yourself many times that you should leave her but your emotion just doesn\'t allow. \r\nThings will flow through.. dun worry. If its too painful, your conscious mind will jump in and make all the decision.\r\n\r\nHope this will help !! Thanks. Nice to meet you. Anyway, i\'m straight.'); return false;">Quote</a></div>
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