Comments on: TLL Q & A Advice Panel Installment #39 http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/2009/09/02/tll-q-a-advice-panel-installment-39/ Mon, 21 May 2012 19:48:39 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: GG http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/2009/09/02/tll-q-a-advice-panel-installment-39/comment-page-1/#comment-5454 GG Thu, 03 Sep 2009 14:11:58 +0000 http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/?p=4581#comment-5454 There is nothing else for it but to be honest with your brother. All of the past relationship, etc. could be hidden from your family until now. If you don't tell him in a neutral, I-need-to-talk-to-you-now way, then it WILL come out later and be totally messy and messed up. Think soap opera. Why do things happen the way they do on soap operas (aside from script writing)? Because people do not tell the truth and try to hide things. You will NOT be able to hide your former relationship with your friend. You might want to warn her first, but, seriously, you need to tell him the extent of your past with this woman for the best of all of you. Just give him the information factually and then let him proceed with full knowledge. After that, it is up to them. Good luck, GG<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('5454','GG'); return false;">Reply</a> - <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('5454','GG','There is nothing else for it but to be honest with your brother. All of the past relationship, etc. could be hidden from your family until now. If you don\'t tell him in a neutral, I-need-to-talk-to-you-now way, then it WILL come out later and be totally messy and messed up. Think soap opera. Why do things happen the way they do on soap operas (aside from script writing)? Because people do not tell the truth and try to hide things. You will NOT be able to hide your former relationship with your friend. You might want to warn her first, but, seriously, you need to tell him the extent of your past with this woman for the best of all of you. Just give him the information factually and then let him proceed with full knowledge. After that, it is up to them.\r\n\r\nGood luck,\r\nGG'); return false;">Quote</a></div> There is nothing else for it but to be honest with your brother. All of the past relationship, etc. could be hidden from your family until now. If you don’t tell him in a neutral, I-need-to-talk-to-you-now way, then it WILL come out later and be totally messy and messed up. Think soap opera. Why do things happen the way they do on soap operas (aside from script writing)? Because people do not tell the truth and try to hide things. You will NOT be able to hide your former relationship with your friend. You might want to warn her first, but, seriously, you need to tell him the extent of your past with this woman for the best of all of you. Just give him the information factually and then let him proceed with full knowledge. After that, it is up to them.

Good luck,
GG

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