Comments on: My gf wont get out of the closet! http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/2009/09/13/my-gf-wont-get-out-of-the-closet/ Sun, 06 Nov 2011 06:14:01 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: fashionistaonfire22 http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/2009/09/13/my-gf-wont-get-out-of-the-closet/comment-page-1/#comment-5524 fashionistaonfire22 Mon, 28 Sep 2009 19:26:51 +0000 http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/?p=4627#comment-5524 I agree with Dharma. If it was just an issue of coming out what Michele spoke of could begin take hold. She could make a choice between happiness and living her life in fear. The fact that she is leaving makes the situation all the more difficult and painful and you should not dwell on false hope. Give those who love and support you a chance to help you through this if you decide to end it. Hugs, Amy<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('5524','fashionistaonfire22'); return false;">Reply</a> - <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('5524','fashionistaonfire22','I agree with Dharma. If it was just an issue of coming out what Michele spoke of could begin take hold. She could make a choice between happiness and living her life in fear. The fact that she is leaving makes the situation all the more difficult and painful and you should not dwell on false hope. Give those who love and support you a chance to help you through this if you decide to end it. \r\n Hugs,\r\n Amy'); return false;">Quote</a></div> I agree with Dharma. If it was just an issue of coming out what Michele spoke of could begin take hold. She could make a choice between happiness and living her life in fear. The fact that she is leaving makes the situation all the more difficult and painful and you should not dwell on false hope. Give those who love and support you a chance to help you through this if you decide to end it.
Hugs,
Amy
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]]> By: Michele Rhew http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/2009/09/13/my-gf-wont-get-out-of-the-closet/comment-page-1/#comment-5486 Michele Rhew Mon, 14 Sep 2009 18:27:31 +0000 http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/?p=4627#comment-5486 Hello, We have been in a relationship for 23 years now, but it was not easy. In the begining my partner would never come out!!! I mean never to family,friends,co-workers,anyone! She was afraid of all the repercussions of everything, did not want society to feel different of her. Now she could care less because she knows they really won't be with her in times of need, only I will. She realized our LOVE was what mattered not what others felt. I don't know your age, but things have lightened up some. Just ask her if she really loves you isn't worth the sacrifice of a few who will not understand or tolerate. In the end you don't need those folks anyway! I hope she comes around and if not maybe you can find someone who wants a relationship with you for love. Take care. Michele<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('5486','Michele Rhew'); return false;">Reply</a> - <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('5486','Michele Rhew','Hello,\r\n\r\nWe have been in a relationship for 23 years now, but it was not easy. In the begining my partner would never come out!!! I mean never to family,friends,co-workers,anyone! She was afraid of all the repercussions of everything, did not want society to feel different of her. Now she could care less because she knows they really won\'t be with her in times of need, only I will. She realized our LOVE was what mattered not what others felt. I don\'t know your age, but things have lightened up some. Just ask her if she really loves you isn\'t worth the sacrifice of a few who will not understand or tolerate. In the end you don\'t need those folks anyway! I hope she comes around and if not maybe you can find someone who wants a relationship with you for love. Take care.\r\n\r\nMichele'); return false;">Quote</a></div> Hello,

We have been in a relationship for 23 years now, but it was not easy. In the begining my partner would never come out!!! I mean never to family,friends,co-workers,anyone! She was afraid of all the repercussions of everything, did not want society to feel different of her. Now she could care less because she knows they really won’t be with her in times of need, only I will. She realized our LOVE was what mattered not what others felt. I don’t know your age, but things have lightened up some. Just ask her if she really loves you isn’t worth the sacrifice of a few who will not understand or tolerate. In the end you don’t need those folks anyway! I hope she comes around and if not maybe you can find someone who wants a relationship with you for love. Take care.

Michele

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]]> By: Dharma Kelleher http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/2009/09/13/my-gf-wont-get-out-of-the-closet/comment-page-1/#comment-5485 Dharma Kelleher Mon, 14 Sep 2009 17:34:07 +0000 http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/?p=4627#comment-5485 If living in the closet feels wrong to you (as it does to a lot of us, including myself), my suggestion is to end the relationship. That sounds harsh, but it does you no good to try and change her. The fact that she's moving out of town just clinches it.<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('5485','Dharma Kelleher'); return false;">Reply</a> - <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('5485','Dharma Kelleher','If living in the closet feels wrong to you (as it does to a lot of us, including myself), my suggestion is to end the relationship. That sounds harsh, but it does you no good to try and change her. The fact that she\'s moving out of town just clinches it.'); return false;">Quote</a></div> If living in the closet feels wrong to you (as it does to a lot of us, including myself), my suggestion is to end the relationship. That sounds harsh, but it does you no good to try and change her. The fact that she’s moving out of town just clinches it.
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