Comments on: I Want Some Stories http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/2009/11/19/i-want-some-stories/ Fri, 12 Mar 2010 14:20:22 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: balkan girl http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/2009/11/19/i-want-some-stories/comment-page-1/#comment-5627 balkan girl Tue, 24 Nov 2009 03:05:39 +0000 http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/?p=5057#comment-5627 hello!just wanna say that your message moved me because i kinda experiment the same..my family is also very religious but in the intolerant way! they think gay people are sick and crazy. I've been raised in this atmosphere and it's probably why i escape from them when i was 21.I never been able to find myself around them!now i live in Thailand,second world gay community.they still don't know WHO i really am, but by seeing me only 1 month every year they start to wonder why i changed so much mentally and physically!and its like with the distance they begin to realize that they're maybe missing something very important..its still hard to talk to them, the less they know better they feel, but this year i really notice a big change in their attitude.. i'm not saying that you should leave your country to make sure your family will accept you as you are, but sometimes when people who loves you notice that you changed a lot(without any help from them!!), and that makes you actually very happy, THEY START TO WONDER WHAT IS YOUR BIG SECRET! and if by asking themselves the good questions they still don't get the answer(like my sister did by herself!) they will probably get the guts to ask you when they will be ready to hear it..(like my cousins did..!) i'm pretty sure my mum and dad will open their eyes the same way when they will be ready. of course it wasn't always easy for me. i think i will still get this double life feeling until all of them will know about it! but i gotta admit that Thai people, culture and way of life help me a lot in all that! i kinda find a new family there who helps me to be more positive in my new life..! hope that this will help you.. take care and get out! i agree with Dace!<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('5627','balkan girl'); return false;">Reply</a> - <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('5627','balkan girl','hello!just wanna say that your message moved me because i kinda experiment the same..my family is also very religious but in the intolerant way! they think gay people are sick and crazy. I\'ve been raised in this atmosphere and it\'s probably why i escape from them when i was 21.I never been able to find myself around them!now i live in Thailand,second world gay community.they still don\'t know WHO i really am, but by seeing me only 1 month every year they start to wonder why i changed so much mentally and physically!and its like with the distance they begin to realize that they\'re maybe missing something very important..its still hard to talk to them, the less they know better they feel, but this year i really notice a big change in their attitude.. i\'m not saying that you should leave your country to make sure your family will accept you as you are, but sometimes when people who loves you notice that you changed a lot(without any help from them!!), and that makes you actually very happy, THEY START TO WONDER WHAT IS YOUR BIG SECRET! and if by asking themselves the good questions they still don\'t get the answer(like my sister did by herself!) they will probably get the guts to ask you when they will be ready to hear it..(like my cousins did..!) i\'m pretty sure my mum and dad will open their eyes the same way when they will be ready. of course it wasn\'t always easy for me. i think i will still get this double life feeling until all of them will know about it! but i gotta admit that Thai people, culture and way of life help me a lot in all that! i kinda find a new family there who helps me to be more positive in my new life..!\r\nhope that this will help you.. take care and get out! i agree with Dace!'); return false;">Quote</a></div> hello!just wanna say that your message moved me because i kinda experiment the same..my family is also very religious but in the intolerant way! they think gay people are sick and crazy. I’ve been raised in this atmosphere and it’s probably why i escape from them when i was 21.I never been able to find myself around them!now i live in Thailand,second world gay community.they still don’t know WHO i really am, but by seeing me only 1 month every year they start to wonder why i changed so much mentally and physically!and its like with the distance they begin to realize that they’re maybe missing something very important..its still hard to talk to them, the less they know better they feel, but this year i really notice a big change in their attitude.. i’m not saying that you should leave your country to make sure your family will accept you as you are, but sometimes when people who loves you notice that you changed a lot(without any help from them!!), and that makes you actually very happy, THEY START TO WONDER WHAT IS YOUR BIG SECRET! and if by asking themselves the good questions they still don’t get the answer(like my sister did by herself!) they will probably get the guts to ask you when they will be ready to hear it..(like my cousins did..!) i’m pretty sure my mum and dad will open their eyes the same way when they will be ready. of course it wasn’t always easy for me. i think i will still get this double life feeling until all of them will know about it! but i gotta admit that Thai people, culture and way of life help me a lot in all that! i kinda find a new family there who helps me to be more positive in my new life..!
hope that this will help you.. take care and get out! i agree with Dace!
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]]> By: Dace http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/2009/11/19/i-want-some-stories/comment-page-1/#comment-5621 Dace Sun, 22 Nov 2009 04:11:45 +0000 http://thelesbianlifestyle.com/?p=5057#comment-5621 Of course there are gay people out there that are in the same situation like you are. Just be yourself and listen to your heart, it will tell you what to do and when. You will come out when you are ready...You will meet friends and feel more comfortable with who you are. Just hang in there and trust yourself<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('5621','Dace'); return false;">Reply</a> - <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('5621','Dace','Of course there are gay people out there that are in the same situation like you are. Just be yourself and listen to your heart, it will tell you what to do and when. You will come out when you are ready...You will meet friends and feel more comfortable with who you are. Just hang in there and trust yourself'); return false;">Quote</a></div> Of course there are gay people out there that are in the same situation like you are. Just be yourself and listen to your heart, it will tell you what to do and when. You will come out when you are ready…You will meet friends and feel more comfortable with who you are. Just hang in there and trust yourself
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