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	<title>Comments on: TLL Q &amp; A Advice Panel Installment #42</title>
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		<title>By: Tara</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tara</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Nov 2009 15:11:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I read, a couple of times, that you &quot;don&#039;t want to hurt anyone.&quot;  Anyone but yourself, of course. Dear Mary, you are hurting, and you deserve at least as much consideration as those around you.  Big change is hard, people do get hurt.  But living honestly is the reward.  I agree about seeing a therapist, she/he could help you strategize about how to leave your current situation and move into authentic living.  One day at time; all the best to you as you work through this.&lt;div class=&quot;comment-remix-meta&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;replyto&quot; onclick=&quot;replyto(&#039;5631&#039;,&#039;Tara&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Reply&lt;/a&gt;  - &lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;quote&quot; onclick=&quot;quote(&#039;5631&#039;,&#039;Tara&#039;,&#039;I read, a couple of times, that you \&quot;don\&#039;t want to hurt anyone.\&quot;  Anyone but yourself, of course. Dear Mary, you are hurting, and you deserve at least as much consideration as those around you.  Big change is hard, people do get hurt.  But living honestly is the reward.  I agree about seeing a therapist, she\/he could help you strategize about how to leave your current situation and move into authentic living.  One day at time; all the best to you as you work through this.&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Quote&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I read, a couple of times, that you &#8220;don&#8217;t want to hurt anyone.&#8221;  Anyone but yourself, of course. Dear Mary, you are hurting, and you deserve at least as much consideration as those around you.  Big change is hard, people do get hurt.  But living honestly is the reward.  I agree about seeing a therapist, she/he could help you strategize about how to leave your current situation and move into authentic living.  One day at time; all the best to you as you work through this.
<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('5631','Tara'); return false;">Reply</a>  &#8211; <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('5631','Tara','I read, a couple of times, that you \&quot;don\'t want to hurt anyone.\&quot;  Anyone but yourself, of course. Dear Mary, you are hurting, and you deserve at least as much consideration as those around you.  Big change is hard, people do get hurt.  But living honestly is the reward.  I agree about seeing a therapist, she\/he could help you strategize about how to leave your current situation and move into authentic living.  One day at time; all the best to you as you work through this.'); return false;">Quote</a></div>
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