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A family right now? :(

a-family-right-now

Ok so the thing is of course, i am a lesbian and im wanting to have a baby. I mean I want to have a baby really bad. Everybody around me is having babies or they are pregnant and thats making me want one even more. Now I dont want one because everybody else has one. Im not that kind of girl but I do love babies so much. I dont even know why I am wanting a baby so bad right now. I have so many things going through my mind. For one I am single and I just got out a year and a half relationship. I still talk to the girl and I am still so much in love with her. We just have so many problems. When we were together she always talked about us having a family together and she loves kids. Shes very good with her nieces and nephews. When I think about having a family I always see it being with her and no one else. I know she would support me and take care of me and the baby but im just not sure if  I should be with her right now.

I have a job and Im almost done with beauty school and im 19. I dont have the money to adopt or go to a sperm donor. So I was reading on the internet about this thing called the turkey baster method and its an at home method. I also talked to an older woman who knew a gay guy couple that did it for a straight couple and she said it worked. But as I was reading it over the internet some people were saying that its not safe.

I want to know what you guys honestly think. Leave me comments.

You’re 19? Wait!
Get a job, make sure your finances are in order, build a safe home environment, find a partner you want to stay with….then get babies. Remeber: Babies turn into 5 year olds, 10 year olds, teenagers and eventually they become adults.
Eva´s last blog ..Happygolf with bipolar tendencies

by Eva on May 20th, 2010 at 7:06 AM

please dont go getting pregnant. for the childs sake. babies are hard hard work. they scream in the middle of the night, need constant attention, will not car if you are tired, ill, upset, lonely (and you will be lonely) being single with a baby will make not being single even harder..its a long thankless road, and alone even more so. right now your emotions are making you crave this, but the reality is you dont have the cash for a sperm donor then you REALLY dont have the cash for a baby…they cost an absolute fortune..and continue to do so. and how will you support, clothe, feed, house this child? please wait until you are finacially solvent and in a secure relationship for your childs sake (and as the previous poster points out, they are babies for a mere fraction of time..then they get REALLY difficult!)

by joolsbaby on May 21st, 2010 at 2:09 PM

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