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Lori Hahn, from the TLL Advise Panel follows up with all those that send in questions for the advice panel and give us permission to follow up with their questions and or concerns. Below is a follow up from Jean for TLL Q & A  Installment #54.

dear tll,

it’s only now that i’ve read your advices and im very grateful. thank you.
I have done most of the advice written  here except for going into a psychiatrist. I want to do it myself first, and that would be my last resort.

As of now…i’ve been spending my time reading books…going to church…praying and tried to stop thinking of the person who’ve hurt me.

Giving up thoughts still crawl out of my mind whenever i feel the pain… but i just look at my mother and think of her alone…makes me stop and think.

I have no friends here really who can understand me…even my family dont want to accept that i have had a relationship with a lesbian. im scared of sharing to people my thoughts…my pains…because im afraid of being judged. since i am a teacher and this experience came late in my life. thats why i tried writing to tll.

i really do appreciate your advices. I have stopped talking to people about how I feel so I keep all to myself. So I really thank all of you for hearing me out.

Lori, hope you can extend to the group my sincerest appreciation.
I just really need someone who can understand to talk to…

sincerely
jean