2010
Reachin for what I want
It was a hard and funny process when I first came out. I was married actually to a man but he knew like I knew that I wanted to be with women. He would call me a lesbian during fights. That is the funny part. lol The hard part was actually being gay. I had to fake it everyday around family and friends protecting them. No where did I think of myself. It was really hard. But then I finally met my true love. When I met her I knew that I only wanted to be with women not only women but this woman. I called my mother and got the nerve to tell her, i called my grandmother and she was cool with it. My father him to. All of them got it over the phone. I didn’t care what it took or who it might hurt. I had to tell them. All I knew was that I was very very happy. I have never been this happy. I mean I was still having sex with women during my stages of bisexuality. But she cut that all off so quick. We have been together for three years. I have grown so much as a person and loved so well as a lover. I’m very happy to call this woman my girlfriend and as soon as I am able to marry as a straight person she will be my wife. Now my family and her family has become one. We have the full support from both sides the love and respect us both as it should be.
Guest Post Sent In From: Danye
Email: danye@secretsofalesbian.com
Age: 23
Location: Raleigh, Nc
Website: http://www.secretsofalesbian.com

















