In love for too many years

Apr
2011

In love for too many years

I fell in love with a friend. I didn’t realize it was happening. We had talked briefly when we met and she was not interested in me in an intimate way. However she often flirted with me and took my hand when we were walking home. We spent every moment of our free time together. She constantly got dumped by everyone she went out with and still does. We had a falling out but now years later I contacted her. During a phone call I told her I fell in love with a women who didn’t feel the same toward me. I finally just mailed her a letter telling her that I’m in love with her. But after that phone call I stopped hearing from her. Why would she deny her feelings toward me-she always came on to me but it also stopped before anything serious happened. She always spoke of the women she was with and gave intimate details. It was mean. Do you think she is somehow interested in me but will never act on her feelings? Why would she go out with anyone that she thought was interested in her but not me?

Any feedback is appreciated. I must finally move on and I’ve recently realized it. Do you think I’m correct in doing this? It very much hurts.

Thanks a lot.
Anonymous

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4 Responses to In love for too many years

I know that exact feeling VERY well, same thing happened to me. My first love… Nothing has ever hurt as much except losing my cousin and best friend to a dru overdose. Moving on was definitely best, though not entirely possible, b/c I will ALWAYS love her. Best of luck with everything.

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by Jess on April 18th, 2011 at 2:40 PM

“Someone like you…” Adele’s song is all I have to say…it will hurt to hear the words but will heal at the same time.. good luck!!

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by Adele on April 18th, 2011 at 7:39 PM

its been 15 years that ive been in love with a certain someone- even if you do move on your heart will never forget or be the same! dont give up!

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by name on April 19th, 2011 at 2:39 PM

That sucks, I realize that and I have compassion for you. I find that women, many women,not all, play games. Some find it “fun” but when they are approached, they say, “ok, its’ time to move on to the next fun thing or fun person”. They’re scared, it’s fun? I’m not sure. But there is a girl that i work with who, if i let myself go…i could easily fall in love with her. However, there’s a problem. She’s attached and lives with the girl. But there’s so many times she talks to me about her unhappiness and that the girl is too possessive and jealous. She and I have such a hot chemistry between one another….and such a connection. We just look at each other and we both turn purple. And with all the heavy flirting, she still manages to bring up the girlfriend in conversation with me. Why would she flirt so much. Why would she express her desire like that if she has no intention. I mean there’s more…more of the flirting where we see each other in the hall way and she throws her arms around me, and tells me how delicious i smell and groans…mmmmmmmmmmmm. Oh that’s so frustrating. And i feel there is only so much i can tell her because we work together. That wouldn’t be very professional and these days with the laws you have to be super careful. So i feel you…I understand.

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by M. on April 26th, 2011 at 6:00 AM