Losing Love

Jun
2011

Losing Love

I have been with this girl for about 3 years and known her since high school. We started off very good then got very rocky then went to good again. We had a place together and everything. About a month before we broke up we began arguing a lot more being less touchy stopped having sexual time together it was weird to me. I thought it was because she was working a lot so I never complained. I did everything for her. We break up and not even 2 weeks later shes talking to a guy already. Does this mean she wasn’t a full lesbian the entire time? Does this mean she was seeing him before we even broke up? I’m so heart broken because she would always tell me shes a lesbian and would never hurt me or leave me for a guy and she did everything she said she wouldn’t do. I don’t know what to think of that. I need true lesbian advice. Thank you

Sent in by: Jenee
Age: 23
Location: New Jersey

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2 Responses to Losing Love

Hi,

You sound a bit like I am talking to myself! I have a relationship with a girl that isn’t out at home. It kills me every time I hear or see her in some fake (I Hope) hetero situation. It sucks…it just sucks.

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by name Anne on June 26th, 2011 at 4:00 PM

I think that losing a loved one to someone else is tough regardless of the circumstances. I don’t think you should focus on the fact that she seems to be getting close to a guy. The fact that she may or may not be starting a new relationship should not take away the fun times that you had over the last three years. Are you able to talk things through with her?

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by Sex, Drugs and Bacon Sandwiches on June 27th, 2011 at 3:50 AM