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Cross post for TLL & Frank in support of 8AGAINST8 I live in Oregon. It’s right above California. Generally Oregonians hate Californians. Why? Well, the feeling here is that these rich-ass wacka doo California natives come here & buy up all the affordable properties and pollute our air with their fruity extra fluffy foam latte [...]

“Rape is an interpersonal trauma that requires interpersonal healing. The more opportunities to safely confront the impact of rape with understanding and support, the greater the recovery.” -via eCounseling.com I’m not going to get too deep into what I’m going through right now, because after 12 years of trying to not accept this part of [...]

A co-worker asked me this today. Which is harder, more challenging, more, ya know, difficult? This person is one of those well meaning types that I love & loathe at the same time. On one hand they get it. That being a minority has challenges and that non-minorities have certain privileges that make life easier [...]

What looks, sounds & feels sexy to me has changed since I was a budding young woman many moons ago. Some mannerisms, looks & sounds that I felt attracted to have decraesed while others have increased. When I was a mere 14 years old a person’s eyes really drew me to them. This is still [...]

The straight woman. Has she ever appealed to my senses? Has she ever stirred my desires? Has she ever made me dream of her on lonely nights? No. Not once in my 16 years of being out. Many of my pals & ex-lovers have been interested in straight women & some have even dated or [...]