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Aug
2007
05

Adoption, Gay or Straight?

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Taking a quick break from my work to comment on this topic-of-the month. I worked for 5 years in a law office where the attorneys were Guardians ad Litem, appointed by the courts in cases of child neglect and abuse. Additionally, the office also did adoptions. Mainly, the adoptions were the stepparent type, where a [...]

Jul
2007
09

Changing my Focus

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Ok, this is a post from one of my blogs “CO Grumpy Granny” posted just before Memorial Day. It also pretty much addresses where I currently stand on the Bush impeachment issue, so I’m accompishing 2 topics with 1 post. I know the views stated below will be either unpopular or incomprehensible to many, so [...]

Jun
2007
07

My Life in a Snap

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I take a lot of pics around the house, and trying to find one that would “sum up” my life was pretty difficult. Do I put one of just me and my partner together? Do I find one of my daughter and grandsons, etc., etc. Then I found this one and [...]

May
2007
09

Enemy or Role Model?

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That’s the question of the month, I guess, and I wonder if it must be so either/or. Is someone either an enemy of a cause, or a role model for said cause, with nothing in between? Rosie O’Donnell being the example here. Truthfully, I don’t think much about Rosie. I never watched her show, because [...]

Apr
2007
09

Keeping It Together, Keeping It Separate

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My wife and I have been together for five years, and often it seems that we have become almost telepathic with one another. Sometimes that can be really funny, and sometimes scary. I am a very private person, and for me, the way that she can “read” me is uncanny. I have to admit, there [...]

Mar
2007
19

Coming Late to the Party, But Still Here

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Ah, the coming out story. I probably have one of the most anti-climactic coming out stories of anyone I’ve ever met who was gay or lesbian. Of course, coming out “officially” when you’re 45 is a lot simpler (at least it was for me), than when you’re 15, or even 25. I had, however, been [...]

Mar
2007
16

Why It Sucks Not To Be Married

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Up until today, I was kind of a “fence sitter” when it came to gay marriage. See, before I met my wife, I was married twice to men, and trust me, I got no particular “benefit” out of either one of those doomed-from-the-start relationships. So, when I came out, and then later, when I met [...]

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