(I originally wrote this for my personal blog http://livinglifewithoutborders.blogspot.com/) Lately, I have been thinking (I tend to do this a lot, maybe too much) about heteronormativity. My thoughts have been on this topic because of my desire to come out to those I work with. The thought of coming out makes me anxious though because [...]
All right here it is, one of my biggest fears… women; which is difficult and problematic when you are attracted to them. But that doesn’t change the fact that they freak me out. (I think this is one of the main reasons why I am scared to try an open relationship or follow my belief [...]
Sometimes I just don’t know what I want. And I hate that about myself… I love my partner, but she is my first girlfriend and not only does that freak me out, but I know that monogamy is not right for me at this point in my life. Maybe it is selfish, but I know [...]