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Oct
2009
01

Five things that make me happy.

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1.  Memories of my Da.  They’re are all I have left of him and boy there are some good ones.  Mostly though, I glad of the ones where he was dying of cancer and we went gopher shooting.  That made him so happy to shoot those damn things.
2.  My remaining family.  My mother who tries [...]

Apr
2009
08

Suicide

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How would you deal with someone you care about wanting to die?  All I know is that experiencing it has broken me in small ways.  It shatters your sense of being to help the people you love and care about.  I have gone through it with my ma but that was very different, my da [...]

Feb
2009
16

I hate what you say but I will defend to the last your right to say it

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Our freedom of speech is an all important thing, especially in this day and age, but it seems that some groups want it to apply only to them and not to others.  You see this everywhere, between church and state, liberal and conservative, gay and straight, name two groups and I guarantee that they believe [...]

Nov
2008
05

My way of life feels so threatened

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Well, I can’t exactly say I expect much in the way love for writing this article, but hey, opinions are like assholes, everyone’s got one. The mood at school today was somber and slightly depressed as we filed into our first class of the day, engine performance. The minute we sat down the words just [...]

Nov
2008
04

1 Year

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525,600 minutes, 525,000 moments so dear. 525,600 minutes – how do you measure, measure a year? In daylights, in sunsets, in midnights, in cups of coffee. In inches, in miles, in laughter, in strife. In 525,600 minutes – how do you measure a year in the life?
Sorry, I just couldn’t help tossing in those lyrics, [...]

Oct
2008
05

I ain’t pretty: Confessions of the ugly

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Don’t take the title the wrong way folks, I don’t hate myself and I sure as hell don’t want to change just because of the way people perceive me.  I just wanted to write about it.  And basically it’s just a long assed ramble.
I think perhaps part of the problem is society’s standard of beauty [...]

Aug
2008
07

Playing the blame game

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I blame my ever-suffering mother for everything I have inherited. Mental illness? Yup. Big tits? Oh yeah. Uncomprehending love of stuffed animals? ‘Fraid so. Lesbianism? Damn right.
Since I was a tot, my mother has loved and adored the art of Frank Frazetta and Boris Vallejo. She owns a ton of Vallejo art books and several [...]

Jul
2008
26

I am not who I appear to be

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Don’t worry, no horrible family stories from me this time.  Lately there have been a couple of really good posts about being butch.  Go read them, they’re awesome.   I just thought I’d throw my two cents in on the subject of the butch conundrum.
I’ve been butch since I can remember.  It all started when I [...]

Jul
2008
20

Why is there a decapitated head in my yard?

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Bet that title made ya sit up and take notice.
When I lived in Butte, Montana, I lived in an incredibly old and dilapidated trailer that my parents had hauled with them from Phoenix. Before I resided therein, it had been rented out to an odd assortment of people and for the most part we have [...]

Jul
2008
16

Your Ideal Love Mate

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I have this awesome set of five arcade cards called Your Perfect Love Mate, describing the perfect woman, framed in my home. These cards were printed in 1941 and each one has a picture of a pretty girl and then a little paragraph underneath describing the attributes she should have. I figured I’d share them [...]

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