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Jan
2009
04

A Briefcase Filled With Fear

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Amazing what a trip down Memory Lane it is to clean out your house. That was my project this weekend. I went through old papers, my desk, some closets, just organizing, shredding and heaving things I once thought I needed. As I was tearing through my bedroom closet, I spotted it–my old briefcase.
I actually had [...]

Dec
2008
21

Panic Time: Only 4 Shopping Days Left

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There are only 4 shopping days left and I have a present for everyone on my Christmas list EXCEPT my partner. I don’t even have a clue and I am starting to go into panic mode. Nothing seems quite right.
On a philosophical level, this is not really my fault. It is a side-effect of living [...]

Nov
2008
11

The Importance Of Community

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For a long time I have not been active in the lesbian community in my area. Recently I have begun to miss that. A few weeks ago, I decided to get involved and start socializing more. I am lucky in that there is a very active lesbian club that meets less than a mile from [...]

Oct
2008
26

A Message From A Pennsylvanian RE: Prop 8

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Vote NO on Prop 8! Californians, do everything you can to preserve your rights!
I live in Pennsylvania. Here in PA, gays and lesbians do not have the right to marry. We don’t have the right to be in domestic partnerships, either. Nor do we have civil unions. In fact, here in Pennsylvania gays and lesbians [...]

Sep
2008
30

Feminists Have No Pal In Palin

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Here’s my political two cents, as a woman, a feminist and a lesbian: Sarah Palin even near the White House will be a feminist disaster. I believe she is the greatest threat to the women’s movement in the past 30 years. On the surface, you would think we should support a woman who is vying [...]

Sep
2008
22

If I Can Come Out, Anyone Can!

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You’ve heard people say that before, but in my case it is really true. I was so terrified of coming out, I couldn’t even come out to myself until I was around 40! Yeah, I had attractions to women all my life, been in love even (secretly), but incredibly I never associated that with being [...]

Sep
2008
07

What’s It Like To Be A Lesbian?

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I’ve actually had a couple of people ask me this question recently. At first it seems almost impossible to respond to. Hmmm, what’s it feel like to have blue eyes? Or curly hair? Or to be a heterosexual for that matter? It’s like, normal! I am totally at ease in my skin as a lesbian. [...]

Aug
2008
30

Till Death Do Us Part: Long Term Care For Lesbian Partners

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If you were looking for a sexy lesbian topic, you came to the wrong article. But if you are middle-aged and in a lesbian life partnership and want to stay that way till death do you part, read on.
Long term care. What exactly does that mean? In the medical world, long term care (LTC) is [...]

Aug
2008
24

The Great Thing About Being A Lesbian

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Having lived most of my life as a straight woman, I can honestly say I am much happier as a lesbian. I told this to a straight friend of mine and she crinkled up her nose and asked me why. It was a funny reaction because I realize she was thinking, “Eww, how could you [...]

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