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Mar
2005
18

Being "out" at work

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The question here is not whether a lesbian should be “out” at work but how many people have properly working gaydar and how you would feel being under fire from persons who “just don’t understand.”
Some people are obvious that they are lesbian.They just have that natural look about them and they are easy as pie [...]

Mar
2005
09

Thoughts on bisexuality

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Bisexuality to me is a REAL type of sexuality. I was once labeled as one before I “came out” as a lesbian. I THOUGHT I had interest in males at one point but then I found “Mrs. Right” and history was made. I do believe that there are people who CAN enjoy both sexes and [...]

Feb
2005
26

A random occurence of the fine line between love and hate

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In the past few weeks I have come to realize that there is a fine line between love and hate. Especially if you are me and are wound up in a girl. Lets just say for privacy reasons her name is Tori.
Funny thing is I LOVED her to the utmost. Until……..the disappointment.
I was all [...]

Feb
2005
15

THE THING ABOUT LESBIANS IS…..

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Coming from someone who was once in a heterosexual relationship and didn’t realize she was a lesbian I would have to say that the thing about lesbians is that most are the sweetest, caring, loving women you will ever find! I also have to say that most lesbians are also loyal, devoted, outspoken, and [...]

Jan
2005
18

My View on Stereotypes…A butch perspective

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When I walk into my favorite lesbian watering hole I automatically feel as if I am on some kind of platform being judged. I get numerous looks from numerous people. They all have to assume that position of stereotyping everyone who comes in and arranging them in their own little “groups”.
Generally speaking, most lesbians and [...]

Jan
2005
11

Just a Bit of Babble for the New Year

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Somewhere between here and there is where I am. I cannot say I am here nor can I say I am there I am just simply in the middle. I have much to learn and a lot to remember.
This is how my brain functions on a daily basis. It is very inept and almost always [...]

Dec
2004
22

WHAT’S NEXT?

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Every day I spend with you is a day of growing and learning.
I have been getting to know you more and more with each new day.
I know some of your quirks, some of your anger triggers and some of your happy triggers.
I ask myself this question…what’s next?
I know that you are fond of me.
I know [...]

Dec
2004
22

THE KISS

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Being able to see the future in someone else’s soul before you even speak. Two eyes meeting for a split second.
The fall of both that occurs simultaneously. The unconditional love that developed before two people were actually even introduced.
The countless hours of getting to know one another that neither wanted to end.
That night [...]

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    Every woman I have ever loved has left her print upon me, where I loved some invaluable piece of myself apart from me–so different that I had to stretch and grow in order to recognize her. And in that growing, we came to separation, that place where work begins. — Audre Lorde