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I’ve heard plenty about the intricacies of the lesbian web of exes though myself still haven’t been in enough relationships to experience that first-person. Yesterday though I had my own dose of ex-lover weirdness that came in the form of my ex-girlfriend’s most recent ex-boyfriend, the guy she went out with after we broke up. [...]

I’ve been thinking about this the last few days and can’t seem to decide whether I will write what I want to see happen, or what can realistically happen. If it should be abstract, or more concrete. But then there is one thing that kind of fall under all categories. It might be somewhat unrelated [...]

Note: I’m cross-posting this from my own blog. Just wrote it and thought it could be relevant here too. Although because the intended audience is somewhat different, my use of us/we/them/they/you might be all jumbled up. Hope it’s not too confusing.
What bothers me about the “it’s a choice” argument about homosexualty or homosexual “lifestyle” is [...]

I guess I can be considered “butch”. I’m usually not one for labels, but labels find their way to be attached to me anyway. This is not a post about the politics of the butch and femme dichotomy, being or not being. It’s an issue that bothers me every now and then, and lately it [...]

For most of you, January 28th probably wasn’t a very significant day, but on that day, a historical moment occured for French pro tennis player Amelie Mauresmo — she won her first career Grand Slam single title at the Australian Open. (For the tennis/sport illiterate, a Grand Slam title is the top achievement you can [...]

It would be easy for me to say that family is chosen, not given, and that wherever I feel comfortable is where home is. But they’re there, and there’s no where else I can belong to, whether I want to or not. Maybe in some ways I’m in a lucky position to say such a [...]

Note: Not related to monthly topic
I had an interesting encounter the last few days, which brought up a question that I never really thought about: how do I feel about trans people? Not about them, exactly, but about dating/going out with one.
Last weekend I got a really sweet message in my account on Superdyke (an [...]

Hello everyone, I’m new to TLL as a writer (though I’ve been reading for a while now) and this is my first post which will fit quite well into this month’s topic!
I’m a 19-year-old (soon to be 20) from Vancouver, BC. My “out-age”, however, is only 8 months. On top of that, I’m not even [...]