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It seems like I’m on an endless journey when it comes to my gender identity. If you aren’t familiar you can check out past posts on my blog that are labeled “gender“, “butch” or “queer“.
Basically I identify as, what many consider a third gender or genderqueer. A female born masculine person. I [...]

When my da was a boy his father ran a dude ranch catering to hunters, so he grew up with horses.  Grampa had this one horse, who’s name escapes me at the moment, that was a really good pack horse.  Well, this horse broke it’s leg in a prairie dog hole but my grampa didn’t [...]

I have a complicated cheating story.
I suppose they’re all complicated, at least from the perspective of the cheater, because we at some point feel justified enough that it’s okay for us to cheat, in order to make the choices to do it. I doubt anyone goes out thinking, “oh, maybe I’ll cheat on my girlfriend [...]

For March’s topic “define sexy.”
Sexy is in the way she walks. I notice her legs first, almost always. Her stride. The S curve of her ankles to her knees to her ass. Sexy is in the posture, in her spine, erect, in her shoulders, held back and confident.
It’s the power that is sexy, especially when [...]

…because Dyke is no longer a bad word.
I think the world has come to a point where no words are sacred, no boundaries to what you can and cannot say. Of course, in other countries this is different, and you cannot even insult the ruler. BUT, in America, this standard is upsidedown and insideout.
We, Americans, [...]

Here on the tip of my tongue, the final sense, the impetus of hunger
the bounty of being sated.
It’s the blackberry of the Shiraz … her lips to my tongue
It’s tangerine squeezed fresh to her wrist and waterfalling to my mouth.
and the sweet syrup of… her
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Just for tonight
let me lie down
nerves stripped and exposed
to [...]

“Ooh, but I still smell her.” - Lt. Col. Frank Slade in “Scent of a Woman” (1992)
It’s her skin in the mornings that smells of rain and lemons.
It’s her favorite perfume behind her ear mixing with the soapy clean of her shampoo.
It’s the smell of sun and coconuts on her back in summer.
It’s the whisper [...]