Archive for the ‘Dating’ Category

Mar
2010
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7 Years, Match.com, and Giving Up So I Could Love Again

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I was 32 and I had come to peace with the fact that I would be alone forever. I had done the “lesbian scene” in my mid twenties and gladly took my last bow when I turned 3o. The bars weren’t me, the clique’s weren’t me, the 3 degrees of separation wasn’t me, so who [...]

Feb
2010
28

Is this true attraction?

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I am pretty confused right now. There is a girl I work with who has expressed her feelings for me and I am totally cool with that. However, I’m not quite sure how I feel about her. She is a really great girl whom I have fun with and share interests with. We both enjoy [...]

Feb
2010
25

My Experiment With Online Dating

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I thought it was a numbers game…I was actually quite positive, but then I’m almost always sure I’m right…I can say “almost” now because here at the beginning of my fourth decade, I’m finally starting to outgrow the need to always be right. And, by the way, for the record, I was definitely wrong.
Oh, also, [...]

Feb
2010
07

SAPPHO SPEAKS: It’s Just Ridiculous

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Lectori Salutem! or L.S. (Greetings to the Reader!)
Ridiculous was one of my favorite words to use for years and years and one day “poof” out of nowhere, the word was ruined for me. How you may ask? My best friend at the time just had to tell me a story about and her girlfriend and [...]

Feb
2010
05

Thursday Hangovers

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I’m not a big fan of mid-week drinking. Especially when I missed every single college class this week, and am supposed to be up at 7am the following morning in a feeble attempt to improve my attendance. No, getting absolutely slaughtered on Wednesday night is not really a) a good idea, or b) my idea [...]

Jan
2010
27

TLL Q & A Advice Panel Installment #50

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I would like to take this time to thank all the wonderful women that answer the questions sent into the TLL Advice Panel. As we answer our 50th question even more continue to come in.  I hope that this means the readers trust our advice and that we are doing our best to provide a [...]

Dec
2009
21

Sappho Speaks: “The 5-Minute Test: An Online Dating Weed Out Exam”

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Lectori Salutem! or L.S. (Greetings to the Reader!)
For those of you out in the online dating world, I have come up with a little test to weed a bit of the undesirables from the beginning. Now, if you can’t pass the quiz, Houston, I’m afraid we might have a problem. So here it is for [...]

Oct
2009
08

Not the life I envisioned

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I inundate this blog with sex toy reviews, and have been doing so for almost a year. I can hardly believe it’s been that long. In addition to talking about sex toys all the time on here, I’m here now to say that currently, that’s also what I do all day long at work. I [...]

Sep
2009
16

Dear Eros

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Well, here I am again.   Did ya’ miss me?  Yup.  Single. Not-so-suddenly.  We were on a long, slow death march for the last couple of months.  Lovely woman.  Love her very much.  Totally incompatible for the long haul.  My regular pronouncements during each of three major relationships over the past three years was: “This is [...]

Aug
2009
19

When You Cry

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© 2009 Sandra Jean-Pierre
It came like turbulence from a butterfly’s wing. She barely realized it had been a kiss; if it were not for the mango and slight metallic woman taste left on her lips and in the air exhaled into her space, she would have just assumed it, this was all a dream.
Her brow [...]

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