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To this day I can not necessarily tell you if my first “lesbian” long term relationship was with a “straight” woman. I was in my early 20’s and her in her late 20’s. She was married (I came to find out later) and had a baby. I had a 2 year old. We met online. [...]

I read a recent interview with Lionel Shriver about her latest book The Post Birthday World. In this book the main character is a woman who tries to choose between two men. In the real world the author had a similar dilemma. The interviewer noted in the interview that when choosing between two different people [...]

I had an idea—a brilliant idea to reduce my stress and shake up my routine—an event to anticipate with relish. I was going out. Really—outside of my actual house to a place that doesn’t have the name of the company I work for on the door. [...]

I’ve been dating someone new. It’s still fresh, in the “getting to know all about each other” stage, that fragile, fun time where learning everything about her is exciting.
In my exuberance, I’ve been telling one of my friends, “Fancy,” all about my new crush. Gushing at certain points, but telling her how I like this [...]

Okay. So 99.9% of the women in my life are straight. It’s been like that for a long time. Hell, if I could find a lesbian, I’d date her. But it seems that I live in a dyke-free zone.
I’m out at work. Super out. ‘I like girls’ sticker on the back of my chair out.
So [...]

Note: Not related to monthly topic
I had an interesting encounter the last few days, which brought up a question that I never really thought about: how do I feel about trans people? Not about them, exactly, but about dating/going out with one.
Last weekend I got a really sweet message in my account on Superdyke (an [...]

Internet relationships …. some people swear by them, others don’t understand even the simplest reasons behind them …. me? I swing somewhere in the middle. The internet has helped people find people for years, and there seem to be as many successes as there are failures. I guess the biggest issue is the trust factor [...]

In the past few weeks I have come to realize that there is a fine line between love and hate. Especially if you are me and are wound up in a girl. Lets just say for privacy reasons her name is Tori.
Funny thing is I LOVED her to the utmost. Until……..the disappointment.
I was all [...]