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Don’t take the title the wrong way folks, I don’t hate myself and I sure as hell don’t want to change just because of the way people perceive me.  I just wanted to write about it.  And basically it’s just a long assed ramble.
I think perhaps part of the problem is society’s standard of beauty [...]

You’ve heard people say that before, but in my case it is really true. I was so terrified of coming out, I couldn’t even come out to myself until I was around 40! Yeah, I had attractions to women all my life, been in love even (secretly), but incredibly I never associated that with being [...]

This week has been very hectic and semi stressful. All week long, I have been trying to line up car deals, b/c I am in the market for a new car and I guess you can say that I am kind of picky. Wednesday, I had a doctors appointment and my blood pressure was high. (I [...]

Do you ever get tired of fighting for who you love? It seems as if the gay community has had to do so since the beginning of time. Many of us have had to fight with our parents, when it’s election time we have to fight to hope the vote goes our way, and internally [...]

By Cay Morgan
Like so many people, I remember Sept. 11, 2001 vividly, for many reasons.
On the morning of Sept. 11, 2001, my partner called me around 6 a.m.  With J living in the DC-metro area and me living in West Virginia, it was our usual routine to start the day by talking to one another. [...]

Ok, so me and my ex have been hanging out a lot. Like I said in the previous blogs, everything was cool…. Until now she starts to argue with me. She picks on me for any little thing and it’s terribly exhausting. I don’t have the tolerance for this anymore. I told her that “friends’ [...]

With the way things are today, you HAVE to save for a rainy day. I’m not just talking about it; I’m almost begging you to realize the importance of this. I say this for all of those people who realized it too late and for those of you that still have a chance to start putting away a few dollars each pay check. Let it be the first thing you do with you money. And if saving means that you need to cut down on your cable TV channels or eat out a few less times a month then trust me when I say, it’s well worth it in the end.

I blame my ever-suffering mother for everything I have inherited. Mental illness? Yup. Big tits? Oh yeah. Uncomprehending love of stuffed animals? ‘Fraid so. Lesbianism? Damn right.
Since I was a tot, my mother has loved and adored the art of Frank Frazetta and Boris Vallejo. She [...]