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Possible to go from straight to lesbian??

Just met this girl and weve fallen hard and fast. She may be my everything.. but she has 2 children at 22?!!!! This is an unheard of language to me.

I broke up with my first girlfriend about six months ago.  We bought a house, started a business, and adopted eight (yes, eight) pets together over the six years we were together.  As you can imagine, it hasn’t exactly been the easiest break-up.  And although I didn’t have an affair, there was someone else, and [...]

This is what it was like for me, the first time.
the ocean
 
when I asked
what it was
like
to know a
woman
my dear one
replied
with infinite
wisdom,
“it is like
the ocean”
…..
 
and I
was
rolling and,
spinning and,
holding
the air
in my
lungs
so I would
not drown
 
eyes shut
but
mind open
under
and
over
and over
again
 
waves crashed
hard
and soft
on me.
and I
rode them
to
shore
floated
blissfully free
while tethered to
her.
 
clarity in
disorientation
the touch of
water
on my
skin
the feel of
heat
on her
breath
the sound of
desire
in
us
and all
around.
 

© 2002 Sandra Jean-Pierre
There’s someone out there for me…
someone who’se not into head games or drama shit
someone who can appreciate my divatude
worship my divaness
revel in my divanation.
There is someone out there for me.
someone who understands the strength of my character
the strength of my self
the strength of my love.
someone who doesn’t need to be
babysat
watched over
or has [...]

On Saturday, I got a good dosage of nice clean social homophobia. I went out to lunch with two friends (one knew I was gay, the other did not), and one girl was talking about her new beau. She turned to me and asked if I had a boyfriend. I said no, but I have a girlfriend. Suddenly, she sat up straight and exclaimed, “YOU’RE BI!” I said, no, “I’m gay.” (Heads turned.) Well, she couldn’t believe it, and asked for a clarification, “You mean you’re lesbian? You like women?” For affirmation, she turned to my other friend who responded with, “She’s a little bit lesbian.”

Carlita
© 2002 Sandra Jean-Pierre
We’re supposed to be running away together. Away to the American dream of a house in the ‘burbs, successful work, a large yard, SUV and three gorgeous kids: an African-American boy with twists in his hair, a curly, red-headed Caucasian girl and an Asian girl with long, straight black hair. It would [...]

When my girlfriend and I were together for two months she had to undergo heart surgery because of a birth defect - a problem with the mitral valve that was not opening and closing correctly. Her problems were severe. She could not bear even the smallest physical strain, she had sometimes strong pain or a [...]