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You’ve been through a lot for a twelve year old and while I?m not going to tell you the future, there are some things that might help guide the way a bit. I can’t make the bad things suck any less but I can tell you that you are going to make it through and [...]

I’ve been pondering the “What would you tell yourself in the past” topic for a bit, but wasn’t sure what age I would want to talk to myself. After reading Tina’s letter, and then visiting The Wishful Writer’s I think 13 is as good an age as any. So here we go…
Dear Kelly,
This year you [...]

…I have music.
I breathe, sleep, eat, and live music. It’s been that way for as far back as I can remember. Music has brought my many memories, helped me through hard times, brought friends together, helped me make new friends… It’s my way of communication, my motivation through everyday, and my way to stay positive. [...]

… I have space to listen what is going on inside me.

Basically, I feel always alive when I am in a “flow” of doing something, not necessarily something I find enjoyable as such but something that I do well. I do not particularly enjoy all the tasks that my job consists of, but [...]

I have a complicated cheating story.
I suppose they’re all complicated, at least from the perspective of the cheater, because we at some point feel justified enough that it’s okay for us to cheat, in order to make the choices to do it. I doubt anyone goes out thinking, “oh, maybe I’ll cheat on my girlfriend [...]

Sexy is strong, sculpted calf muscles that jump with amusement when warm hands wrap them in a gentle embrace.It is also higher up, the biceps that throb under the ministrations of soft succulent lips. Sexy is that sound she makes deep in her throat when she realizes you are awake. Moreover it is that sparkle [...]

There’s an urban legend that says that men think about sex every seven
seconds. Women a lot less, I am told.
Who knows? Who cares?
When you’re in a long-term relationship, however, this mere fact can tip the
balance severely.
The impact of parenthood on any (lesbian) relationship cannot be
underestimated as my SO and I have witnessed first-hand in our [...]

I let her in. She was the one I ran to when I was on the verge of tears. The one I wanted by my side when life threw all of it’s knives, bullets, and storms my way. She was the one woman after so many long years that I could open my heart to [...]